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Yes she does look like her pappy. They need to put that lil girl on a diet. I mean, I am not trying to be mean, but it's not cute. I would not allow my child to be that big. Bigger people have hard lives. They need to train her body .... Brandy is sooooo wrong 4 having her daughter look so chap! Her dad is not cute @ all! Sy'rai needs her hair done, a few hours @ the park and nicer clothes. Geesh if brandy can keep herself fresh, she could @least hookup her offspring! ...The most heartbreaking part of all of this was on Monday night when the doctor came in the examining room and informed us that Brittany tested positive for H1N1 she looked at me and began to cry and said, "Daddy, does this mean I might ...a�?That's because daddy's mean and likes to bug me.a�? He stares at his daughter who has formed her face into a pout, a�?Oh fine. What crown should I get? And if we're getting me a costume we're getting your other daddy a costume too.a�? Ava's frown disappeared as she let ... a�?Daddy needs a sword!a�? a�?Why does he need a sword when we are being princess?a�? Ava smiled at her father before putting her small hands on either side of his face and turning his head so he faced the swords. ...Turns out I'm not alone in my misigivings and angst in this area: a chap called Craig Lawrey contacted me a few weeks ago about a book he's written called Does Your Daughter Have Dad Hair? I wasn't really into receiving a copy - since ...your daughter is so stylish. I hope my daughter is as kick-ass as yours. And as beautiful of course. (= She rocks that hat pretty well too. She must get that from her daddy! Posted 15 hours ago. ( permalink ) ...Does My Kid Love Her Dad More Than Me? Dear Dr Happy My nearly-three-year-old daughter seems to prefer my husband to me a�� and she makes it very plain, indeed. When I go to pick her up from day-care, she cries and says: 'Daddy! ...WAIT the article says HE caught his step daughter in HER apartment, wtf does he care if its HER apartment, I could understand if it was his apartment but if it was her apartment he's got no reason to be mad, but then again he's probably ...The point is, why does every single move he makes end up on this site? So he's taking his daughter out on an ATV? Who cares! Should we also report every time Jon eats out, walks to his mailbox, orders a cup a coffee, or takes a shit? ...In Rebecca Campbell's works, there is something of Hugo's concept of "aching charm" that does indeed return to us with "the melancholy of ghosts." In her recent Los Angeles show "Poltergeist," Campbell recreated her parents' front entry ... A good example of how I incorporate this into my work is Daddy Daughter Date. The original idea for the painting is based on my relationship with my father as a teenager. Going on a "Daddy Daughter Date" was a tradition in our church. ...Probably for the photo op. All the other stars were there with their children so he wanted to have his. She really does look way to young for that type of entertainment, especially given the time span of the film. ... As for my comment towards him and his daughter bonding, I am somewhat incorrect. Him taking the time to take his daughter to this premiere is bonding, but at Shayla's age I don't think her dad taking her to see a�?This Is Ita�? is exactly appealing to her(this ...
My daughter is 15 months old and doesn't really say any words. She said 'mama' a few months ago for a little while but she rarely says it now. she never called me mama directly and from i read she should recognize me and call me that and her daddy 'dada' which she doesn't do either.

She does understand when i talk to her very well, when i ask her for she shoes, water, to give something to her daddy,and so on, anything i say she understands...but she doesn't say anything.

The doctor says that if she doesn't improve by her 18 month appointment we will have to see a Speech therapist.

When did your baby start talking?
How many words by 1 year?
How many words by 15 months?


hello let me start by saying my husband and i have great careers and a 15 month old daughter and we have been talking about having another baby but we are not sure if our daughter will feel left out or jealous with a new baby in da house right now she is at a stage where all she wants is mommy mommy mommy she hates when i go out of her view but i don't know how long this stage lasts. We are trying to take our daughter into consideration into our decision but we want another baby what i am asking is when should we start trying to have another baby?
PLEASE keep in mind i can not explain to my 15 month old child that mommy and daddy wants another baby she barely speaks let alone know what i will b saying to her. My husband was thinking waiting til our daughter is 2 years old before we try to have another baby but i want to start trying now how do i tell him that i want to start trying now i think hes kinda afraid that i will get pregnant fairly quickly bc with my daughter i got pregnant da first time we made love so i think hes afraid the first time we have unprotected sex ill get pregnant so im in a dilemma what should i do?


I make it sound bad by saying "Baby Daddy" lol but me and this guy have been on an off for three years now and we have a 6months old daughter. He honestly loves her more then anything i can see it evrytime we go visit. He lives in a different province... 4 hours away from here... and he wont move here... he always says "not now".... i cant move over there because im still young and i have to finish school first and im planning on geting into the government... wat do i do? Im not even sure if it will work between us... ive recently accepted the Lord as my savior and hes not Christian... i pray alot for this to get better... HELP! no negetivaty please...thx in advance!


i am really lost and dont know what to do. My husband and I have 2 girls. My daughter and his daughter. No children together. We have been married almost 3 years. The first year we spent apart most of the year as he was in Korea. We have a very difficult past with lots o mistrust and insecurity. Nothing that I know of since we got married but alot that I found out after we got married that was lied about. 1 of them being a very serious matter. Anyway. I love him and I know he loves me. We constantly fight though. Every single day. And I cant say anything without me being stupid or him getting an attitude. He has that speak when spoken to attitude. I am so unhappy and I know he is. I dont know what to do though. He is the only dad my daughter will ever know as her real dad left before she was born and He has been there since she was 10 months old (shes now almost 5). My daughter is still, 2 years later, completely devastated that we left her nama and papa and the rest of the family and goes to bed crying every night still bc of it. But I know if we leave she will miss her daddy. We are stationed in Alaska and the rest of the family is in the lower 48. She would also miss her sister and will I very much. He has no patients though and is often really hurtful to my daughter while letting his daughter get away with the same things and she is 6 years older.
I work full time, go to school. have 3 home based businesses, take care of the girls, our 3 pets, and clean the house, dishes, laundry.everything and it is never appreciated. he finds the one thing wrong with the house and says I never do anything!!! The problem is with the distance, If I leave and we work things out I cant come back and Im scared. My daughter will miss them and I cant give her the life she has here. We have a car, own our house, she has a very stable and provided life but she hears us fighting all the time.if we leave we will have the rest of the family but no job at first, we will have to stay with family for a bit, no car, and no daddy and sister, no insurance. What is best for her? I have gotten so used to the military lifestyle. it feels really "right" I love everything about it. And will find it very difficult to adjust to civilian life again. (not bc of the money and benefits either like some girls, Im talking about the closeness, friendships, volunteering, etc) Its not like a normal divorce where she could go see them on the weekends and I could move out and we could work things out. Its one or the other. We leave and say goodbye to everything or we stay and fight. My parents fought alot when I was growing up but never even knew at all until I was an adult. We cant/wont control ourselves. We are both good people but not together. Also with early return of dependents can I move myself and get reimbursed like a dity pcs move?
Please Help


I am really lost and dont know what to do. My husband and I have 2 girls. My daughter and his daughter. No children together. We have been married almost 3 years. The first year we spent apart most of the year as he was in Korea. We have a very difficult past with lots o mistrust and insecurity. Nothing that I know of since we got married but alot that I found out after we got married that was lied about. 1 of them being a very serious matter. Anyway. I love him and I know he loves me. We constantly fight though. Every single day. And I cant say anything without me being stupid or him getting an attitude. He has that speak when spoken to attitude. I am so unhappy and I know he is. I dont know what to do though. He is the only dad my daughter will ever know as her real dad left before she was born and He has been there since she was 10 months old (shes now almost 5). My daughter is still, 2 years later, completely devastated that we left her nama and papa and the rest of the family and goes to bed crying every night still bc of it. But I know if we leave she will miss her daddy. We are stationed in Alaska and the rest of the family is in the lower 48. She would also miss her sister and will I very much. He has no patients though and is often really hurtful to my daughter while letting his daughter get away with the same things and she is 6 years older.
I work full time, go to school. have 3 home based businesses, take care of the girls, our 3 pets, and clean the house, dishes, laundry.everything and it is never appreciated. he finds the one thing wrong with the house and says I never do anything!!! The problem is with the distance, If I leave and we work things out I cant come back and Im scared. My daughter will miss them and I cant give her the life she has here. We have a car, own our house, she has a very stable and provided life but she hears us fighting all the time.if we leave we will have the rest of the family but no job at first, we will have to stay with family for a bit, no car, and no daddy and sister, no insurance. What is best for her? I have gotten so used to the military lifestyle. it feels really "right" I love everything about it. And will find it very difficult to adjust to civilian life again. (not bc of the money and benefits either like some girls, Im talking about the closeness, friendships, volunteering, etc) Its not like a normal divorce where she could go see them on the weekends and I could move out and we could work things out. Its one or the other. We leave and say goodbye to everything or we stay and fight. My parents fought alot when I was growing up but never even knew at all until I was an adult. We cant/wont control ourselves. We are both good people but not together. Also with early return of dependents can I move myself and get reimbursed like a dity pcs move?
Please Help


My little girl (11 months) just laid down for a nap, she is soo sick right now (she has rotovirus, so she has horrible diarrhea but is getting much better!) This is my first time in days that i have had time to sit down and REALLY relax (I just made some yummy homemade chili, and cleaned the whole house while she was awake and playing and not screaming! Woo productivity! hehe)

Anyways, heres a fun questionaire for mommies/expecting mommies!

*How far along are you? 25 weeks

*Do you have any other children? My sick 11 month old perfect lil girl!

*How is your pregnancy going? Ugh rough rough rough! Yet easier then with my daughter!

*Any issues so far? Bleeding until almost 20 weeks, contractions (not BH) and I am almost 2 cm dilated already. On slight bedrest, upgraded from strict! haven't dilated in 3 weeks!

*Favorite part of being pregnant? Mmm eating yummy food! I have been baking lots, and making lots of homemade food. And of course feeling my little man move! He's crazy! Kicking my ribs lots!

*What are you having? A little boy!

*Do you plan on breastfeeding or formula feeding? Breastfeeding all the way! I am nursing my daughter still, she stopped for a few months but started back up a couple months ago and is going strong.

*Stay at home mommy or working mommy? Stay at home mommy! yay! I had to go back to work/school when my daughter was only 4 weeks old, and I recently "stopped out" of my radiography program, meaning I can come back next year if I want. But I'm going to take a class next semester to be a phlebotomist, and its only 3 hours a week!

I hope everybodies pregnancies are going great. And if you do have little ones..

*What is their most recent milestone? My daughter has mastered walking, and climbing. She also now says: Mommy, Daddy, Doggie, Hi, Bye, Tito (our dog), Woof Woof, and BOOOOO (just learned that for halloween!)


My daughter is now of the age where keeping in touch w/ her friends and family is important-esp. since we live overseas and her daddy is deployed. I am creating an email account for her but would like to use a name that unique,fun and one she'll remember. Any suggestions? Her name is Mackenzie. We often call her Kenzie or Mac. Maybe something with her name?


I just recently got back together with my daughters mother and we both had different ways of putting her to sleep at night i would lay with her for a little bit read and sing to her rub her back then leave her in the room by herself some night she would cry maybe for 2 Min's or less then fall asleep other nights she'll just fall asleep. My wife was laying in bed with her till she fell asleep no matter how long it would take now that we're back together its been real tough getting her to sleep she'll just cry either screaming for mommy or daddy so i told my wife to try leaving her in her room alone and shes telling me its cruel and mean to do that so i want to know what i should do


A "family" made up of friends?
I do
My Mommy is Dolly
My daddy is Christine
& a whole bunch of other people
& I have a daughter Cindy...


Over the last 2 weeks, my daughter has became extremely clingy to me. Usually daddy puts her to bed (I do the naps) and now she waits for me to go to bed, and has to sleep in mommy and daddys bed, usually she has to be touching me and she HAS to be on my pillow, no one elses... not even hers! She follows me almost everywhere I go, if I'm cooking in the kitchen, she pushes a chair over to the counter climbs up on it and watches (I know this part is prob. a learning experience more than anything)... anywho... will my daughter know I am pregnant before it is even time for me to test?? (I due to test in a few days)

... she doesnt want anything to do with daddy !

Thanks!
I am a stay at home mom, so I spend ALL day with her and do most everything with her, even if Im trying to take a breather moment for myself! Daddy works 12 hr days.. so you would think she would WANT to spend time with HIM! lol.


I can't decide which one to use, I'm torn!

* I Loved Her First by Heartland
*Daddy's Angel by T Carter
or
* Butterfly Kisses by Bob Carlisle

Any suggestions?


Two months ago my daughter found a daddy longlegs in the toilet and she freaked out. Since then she has refused to go to the bathroom unless I'm there. We talked about how spiders can't eat people and how daddy longlegs are harmless, but my daughter is absolutely terrified of spiders so logic is useless here. Oddly, she hasn't had this issue at school. She only does when she's at home or at my parents' house, where she saw the spider. I go through her bathroom every week to make sure there are no spiders, but apart from this is there anything I can do to help her get past her fear of spiders?


My 4 year old stepson is a hell raiser. He does not listen to his father or me. His mom says she has no problems out of him but she had never disciplined him at all. We just recently started getting him every other week because of child custody. I know that its all new to him but its been over a month now and i think he should be getting into the routine. His teacher says she doesn't have any problems out of him until its his week at daddy's. She says she can always tell a difference. He knows what he did at school to cause him to get in trouble at home and he knows that he is going to get a spanking or timeout because spankings just are not working with him. Me and dad have tried everything from not spanking and just taking things away to making sure he gets praised when he has been good. Dad and I are to the point of no return and frustrated. The bad thing is that we have a younger daughter and now she is starting to act out cause she sees that her brother does it. Any who thanks for any advice that is giving its greatly appreciated.


My daughter (5 1/2) is extremely jealous of my relationship with my husband. If my husband and I start having a chat, she will stand next to us and interupt, we'll tell her to wait a minute because we take turns, but then she starts screaming and crying and that's the end of our conversation. Or if my husband and I are walking down the road holding hands, she'll get in the middle and try to prize our hands apart; then if we say no, go on the other side and hold daddies hand, she'll start screaming hysterically most of the time. We all sleep in the same bed, and our daughter goes in the middle, and usually in the morning I'll go over to cuddle my husband, and say this morning when I went over, she started crying because I was cuddling him. I know it sounds sick, but I feel like my husband has got two wives and one of them is jealous and controlling, and I'm getting pushed and bullied out onto the sidelines. I'm actually begining to dislike my daughter for it. What can I do? It's really breaking me down.


Ever since I've given birth 4 weeks ago to a girl, it's been very difficult as a first-time mommy. I feel like "Daddy" is off in La-la Land and doesn't care and acts selfish around me and the baby.

I haven't been working for a few months before the baby was due and I'm still not working right now. Sometimes I feel it's impossible to get my baby to just "shut up" (don't take this the wrong way...I'm just saying to not cry once in a while). I wake up very early and I have to feed my princess, change her, entertain her. etc. etc. My husband dozes off to 10 a.m. when I wake up at 5 a.m., and expects me to make breakfast for him every morning-not to mention feed my daughter. Our princess is always crying, day and night, 24/7. Especially in the mornings and evenings. All my husband says is "Where's my breakfast? Oh good. You made it. Wait...where's the scrambled eggs I have EVERY morning?!" he demands. Yeah, like I'm supposed to obey his demand and do his scrambled eggs the way he wants it. Anyways, I re-do my husband's "demand" and my daughter (I think) feels she's not getting enough attention so she cries. Hard. My husband says, "Go keep that baby quiet. She's ruining my morning." I get so pissed at him and I have to yell at him and tell him to not act obnoxious around the baby. He leaves the apartment without even dumping his plate in the dish-washer. Again, he expects ME to do it. Me! I'm supposed to do everything. I cook, I clean, I do my laundry, baby's laundry, and my husbands! He comes home and doesn't give a s**t about me or the baby. "Wheres the dinner? Why haven't you prepared it yet?!?!" he yells. The baby senses his and mine frustration at each other and yells and screams and cries. My husband starts mumbling and tells me, "Can you keep her mouth shut for once?!" he yells. He takes her from my arms and she starts to cry when she's not with me, and puts her down in her playpen. "There. She'll fall asleep and will shut up soon." he says. He leaves me with the baby alone in the living room and me in the kitchen. I pick her up and move her playpen by myself into the kitchen so she'll be around mommy. I cook the food that my husband and I like and I feed my baby. He yells my name and I have to grab the baby and come to our bedroom to "help" him. He gets the baby and puts her down in her bassinet (she sleeps with us in our room) and just collapses on the bed and turns the TV on and asks me if I cleaned his closet and did his fu***n' laundry!! "Get over here and give me a foot rub." I hesitate and I have to cook and take care of the baby and I have NO TIME to give him a foot rub. He sees me hesitating and yells at me, "NOW! Right NOW!" He just yells. Demands a foot rub. I have to bend down and rub his bare feet until he says its okay to go back and prepare dinner.

What the hell is wrong with my husband?! Now don't get me wrong here, I DON'T want a divorce...never. He was very sweet and sensitive and loving until I had a baby. Now he's all "gimme a foot rub NOW" and "make me dinner" and demanding. Not only do I have to take care of the baby but take care of my husband...who acts like a baby would!

What do I do to make him "become a man" again? Please help!!!!!


I have one of those 3 in one cribs (that converts from a crib, then you take the front off and it goes to a day bed, then eventually a full size bed) I just converted it from a crib to a day bed for my 21 month old daughter. She was ready. She hated the crib and constantly got her leg stuck in the slats. Tonight is the first night she's in it and I put her in her room, closed the door, and said goodnight. Now she is at her door knocking saying "mommy" "daddy" constantly. What should I do? Keep going back in and putting her in bed and saying "goodnight" Did anyone have this issue? How long did it take before you child stayed in the bed and went to sleep? Any help would be appreciated. Thank you!


Have daughter ,had a tumor removed in her medulla [brain]. Now she cant speak,hear ,swallow,breath with out help extremely weak on her right side .She is blind in one eye has a trachea tube in her neck.Oh and I almost forgot she has a peg tube in her lower abdomen so we can feed her.So any body out there thinks they got problems.The last thing my daughter said to me before she went in 4 surgery was I LOVE YOU DADDY.You cant even imagine how i want to hear those words.This is 7 months and counting.My ? is how do I regain my strengh my sanity how do I mend my broken heart


I have 2 children one is three years old and the other one is 3mths. They are exactly 3 years apart and were born on the same day, which was totally unplanned. My 3 year old daughter was born during a previous relationship, her dad and I broke up. 3 years later I'm involved in a new relationship, engaged to be married with a 3 month old. This is my fiance's first biological child. This is my second, but he's the first boy in an all girl family. We don't plan to have anymore, would the birth order rules apply here, and if so would they be considered 2 first borns or 2 onlys. We both make sure not to treat the children any different. I still spend plenty of time with my daughter so she doesn't feel like her brother is taking away her attention. My fiance spends more time with our daughter than our new son...I think because he's so small and he's scared. I'm sure that will change as he gets older. Right now he mostly plays with our daughter. I'm a stay at home mom...my fiance works so the majority of their time is spent with me. Also, I include my daughter in everything with the baby. She helps bathe him, she helps to pick his clothes, she doesn't help feed him yet because I breastfeed. Also, her 2 cousins which are 13 and 14 come over everyday to help out with the 3 year old. They read to her, play with her, and do whatever they need to do to basically distract her while I take care of the house and spend time with the baby. My daughter's biological father is partially in her life. She calls her soon to be step father daddy and I never told her to. He's been in her life since she was 10mths. Sorry it's so long, but basically how can I keep the birth order thing at bay. I'm the youngest of 4, and my fiance has a brother that is 12 years younger than him. Would the birth order rules apply to us or are there exceptions?


like when they come to pick you up? my dad is old school like that, the guy has to come over to our house to pick us up, we cant meet them somewere cause my daddy has to meet them before, my favorite thing he has done so far is when my sister had a date and the guy showed up like 10 minutes early my dad asked
Dad:can you fight?
Tyler: Umm...i was in wrestling for 3 years, Why?
Dad: cause you have to protect my daughter.
Tyler: That shouldnt be to hard...
Dad: good now have a good time.
Tyler: i sure will.
Dad: but not to good, i dont want to kill you this soon...
Tyler: hahaha
Dad: Did i fucking tell a joke?
Tyler: you saying your going to kill me makes me laugh...
Dad: 13 years in the Army vs your 3 years of wrestling,lets see whos laughing at the end of that....
oh that was there first and last date....and as long as we live at home they have to pick us up...my dad likes Cole (my bf) cause he wants to join the Army as soon as he graduates and cause there the same.....


I'm just curious about the generational and/or lifestyle difference.

Like my parents didn't have video games (okay they had Atari) and they thought they were pointless. But they still let me play them. I didn't have any limits. (Except when I got home from school i was to play outside, and then do homework. After dinner until bed I could play video games and watch tv. And then in the summer as long as I also spent time playing outside, my video games weren't restricted. If my grades dropped then I would lose gaming priveledges until the next report card)

But I have an uncle and know of parents my parents age who would not allow video games in their house at all. And my cousin now has a child and he doesn't allow his child to play video games.

Where I grew up playing the NES and SNES (loved Mario Bros) and I have no problems with my daughter when she is old enough playing video games (Her Daddy and I still play video games from time to time, the Wii was the best invention ever...we have all the old games we grew up on.) She will have the same restrictions I did.

So I am just wondering do you think, parents who grew up playing video games are more likely to allow their child to play video games than parents who grew up without video games or who weren't allowed to play video games?

Thanks
Also do you think the parents of the video game generation are more likely to sit down and play the games with their children, unlike the parents who didn't come from the video game generation?


Here is my question..I am a Grandmother and I live in Central Florida...I was married for almost 20 years..been divorced now for a few years...When my EX and I got married, he had a nice parcel of land...we lived in a small trailer..We had farm animals and grew a big garden and lots of babies.One day he comes home with blueprints and had a beautiful home built. A 2 story log cabin..my Dream home. For many years I stayed home and took care of my family..we were very active in church and community.Raised our chuldren in that home.
Fast forward 20 years. After I caught him living with some girl he met in a strip bat..I filed the divorce. I moved out of the home..I asked him for the next 2 years, before I caught him cheating if he was making the house payments. He told me that the house and property had been foreclosed on and he had lost everything to the Bank.
When we went to court to get the divorce, he told the Judge we did not own anything. A few years later, my daughter is a Mortgage Broker and one bored day she googled Daddy's name.All these public records came up....He had sold everything..Sold..walked right into the Title company and signed an addvite stating he was single and unmarried and walked out with a Huge check. Left me and children penniless. we were still married at the time.
I ralked to an Attorney last year and he said there was nothing I could do about it..I was on the Title and all the Mortgages..but apparently EX never put me on the Deed...How can he get these Mortgages and Loans without me being on the Deed...we were married when the house was built..I am thinking about going after the Title company..Do I have any rights?? and how can he walk into the Title co and tell them he was Unmarried at the time and get away with this?? What should I do??


I'm 17 y/o and i'm engaged to a 19 y/o that I knew for 2 years he has a 2 y/o son and I have a 10 week old daughter. His son's mom run out on him and has nothing to do with her son. and my daughters daddy run out and has nothing to do with his daughter. I get a lot of people saying that i'm nut's and crazy for being engaged at 17 and they say that i'm crazy for letting his son call me mommy but I don't mind that he calls me mommy. I am more then willing to step in to be his mom and myself I think it sweat that he calls me mommy. What do u all think


Ok, our daughter is 4 months old today! She and her Daddy seemed to get along when she was first born, but now! She HATES him!!!! He worked late one day and she didn't get to see him till the next night, so to a baby that was a really long time. She is fully breast feed and has never had a bottle so he really can't feed her. I stay home so I know that nothing has happened to her, she has two big brothers (4&2) that love their Daddy so we don't get what wrong with her!


My daughter's best friend was taken from her mother 5 months ago by her father through a temporary restraining order, because there was a a supposed threat of the mother taking the child to Mexico. The mother is here illegally (from Mexico) and so is the father (from Costa Rica). But the child is a citizen.

It's a complicated story, but the father is a drug user (twice court ordered into rehab). He became very angry when the mother made him leave her house that she owns. He assaulted her (knocked a tooth out) when she did this, so she unwisely told him if he wanted to see his daughter he had better pay her some child support. Instead he took the child claiming the mother had tried to get the child a passport and that she had purchased plane tickets to Mexico. It's kind of a silly thing to claim, since the mother has no papers she won't be able to come back into the country if she leaves. She owns a house here, so it would make no sense for her to get stuck in Mexico. But it worked... they took his claim at face value and did not check to see if it was credible.

He claimed to have evidence of all of this, that somehow got stolen from his truck. The mother has since gotten certified letters from the Mexican embassy stating that she had never attempted to get the child a Mexican passport. I just made copies for her of them at my house, so I've actually seen and read them with my own eyes.

It's such a sad situation. A classic case of the child welfare system not working to protect children. They have now been told that it is possible that this could drag on for another year.

Are you able to sue someone for making false claims to the justice system? The father stated that he had documentation of her attempts to get this passport that have now disappeared. He even claimed he gave them to his lawyer, who says he never had any such papers. I'm wondering if there is some creative way to speed this whole thing along... by getting it out of a family court situation. This poor little girl was the happiest thing a few months ago (she is 7 years old), and now she is afraid to talk to people and has gotten fat (daddy brings her to McDonald,s for most meals). There has to be something that can be done. I asked a friend of mine who is a lawyer about this, and her cold response was, "this is what happens when you're illegal." I said, but the child is NOT illegal... what about her? Because mom and dad have made poor choices she should suffer with a drug addict father?

There has to be some other way.


My 13 month daughter has recently started having problems going to sleep and staying asleep. We have a set routine every night and we have put her to bed still awake at times and she would fall asleep on her own. She has never really slept straight through the night. She always would wake up at some point crying and I would lay her back down and cover her back up and put her pacifire in if she didn't stop at that point.
Now she is getting HYSTERICAL!!!!! If she doesn't fall asleep in my arms right after she finishes her bottle she get hysterical!
If she does fall asleep in my arms she will wake up as soon as I put her in the crib and gets hysterical!
When she wakes up in the night she is hysterical!
She is doing this both for her nap and at bedtime. Waking up in the night 5-6 times!!!!
We tried "Ferberizing" her; Dr. Ferber's method of leaving her and then returning after 1 minute with just a little contact and leaving again. Each time extending the time. It's not working and my nerves are frayed! She is my third and my oldest did this around 1 1/2 and the Ferber method worked with him after the second night.
It's not teething. She is not sick. I'm having a really hard time. It almost like I am neglecting her if I let her cry like this. Please give me some advise!!!
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It sounds like separation anxiety to me. I'm not sure that there is much that can be done. She just has to outgrow it. Some little ones outgrow it quickly, others (like mine) take forever.
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That makes total sense now that you say that. My husband works 12-14 hours a day and I am home very isolated with our children. She is with me ALL the time. We are going to try and have Daddy put her to bed. Thanks for your response.

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I have been with my partner for the last 10 months and I can't describe how much I love him. He's 31 and I am 20, he has two children from his past relationship who are only a few years old and are in his full custody. It hasn't been the easiest relationship with his ex getting involved and saying she's been sleeping with him, his eldest daughter who has just turned 4 used to get along with me, but recently it seems she likes to tell me she hates me when her Daddy isn't there, she makes sure he isn't around to hear and hits me and says really nasty things to me. I have always tried to be the best for his two children and do everything I can for them because I love them to pieces and understand the way of "evil step mothers" and would hate for them to think that of me. I never try to take their mother's place as I know in a child's eyes their mother means everything. I love them all to pieces, but all me and my partner do is argue cos he feels it is my fault why his daughter is being like this with me, due to the fact I leave him to do the discipline, yet i feel that it is not my place to discipline his children. We split up because all we did is argue about stupid things, for example he thought I was seeing other people behind his back, which I would never ever do as I also know what that feels like, also i'm with him all of the time so wouldn't have the time to do anything. We also argue about things to do with his ex trying her hardest to split us up, calling me and telling me that she has slept with him when she has been round to see him which i know that she has been round cos his kids told me and many many more stupid pointless things. After splitting up because it wasn't fair in us or his kids I found I was pregnant with his child which was 2 week ago now and im only 6 weeks gone. Since we found out I decided it would be best to discuss the matter with him. We both decided to keep the child and get back together, but since then we have done nothing but argue, and his eldest daughter seems to have got worse with me, we do not argue in front of the children, but the fact that his daughter keeps being nasty when he isn't there is really getting me down, cos I try so much, I love him so much and hate arguing with him and arguing because he doesn't realise how much its upsetting me. I was meant to be going to university to study teaching next september commuting there and back, but this will make it more difficult. We had a big row today and split up we have argued every day since we found out. Its getting me down and I don't think I should bring a child into the world with all of these arguments and if we are split up then a child without a father and mother to bring it up. I haven't a clue what to do about it can someone please help cos I feel i cant talk to anyone about it.


My daughter is 2 months old and her daddy, my husband, is leaving for Afghanistan for a year when she is 7 months old. I am going to pull up webcams and have her listen to his voice... but I am still worried that she won't really know who he is when he gets home.

Has anyone else gone through this before? How did your child react when your spouse got home? Details... age your child was, for how long, etc.

Thanks!


Name ~ Abigail

Nicknames ~ Abbie, Abby, Gail, Gale

Meaning ~ The Father is happy

Saint & Patronage ~ Abba is the Hebrew word for "Daddy" and is scripture's endearing term for God the Father. He is our Abba, our Daddy. Your patron is Daddy-God!

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3 ~ If you was to use the name Abigail, would it be because you really loved the name or because Abigail is a saint name?
4 ~ Rate this name out of 10
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ok my daughter is a lil over 3 months old. up until the past couple weeks she played laughed and smiled with everyone including her daddy and me. her daddy works 2nd shift so by the time he gets home she is asleep and i let him sleep at night time so when she was getting up i got up with her. well now she sleeps all night but sometimes on weekends when her daddy tried feeding her she wouldnt let him but it was only at night. i figured it was cause she was used to me. well now the past couple weeks he cant even hold her. he has never done anything wrong to her. he has always played with her took her on walks. always made her smile. but now all the sudden when he holds her she cries and she wont calm down until i get her. sometimes he can get her to calm down but very rarely. she will cry her self to sleep with him. he is so heartbroke because he thinks his daughter hates him. which i know she loves him cause i can hold her and he can talk to her and she will smile and play. but she just will not let him hold her. do yall have any suggestions as to why she is doing this? is it normal? another thing she is a big mommy girl but thing is he is the only person she does this to. every now and then she gives me fits and i cant calm her down but thats very rare. also any suggestions as to get her out of this daddy hating stage? cause he loves her to death and just wishes she would let him hold her and love on her. i feel terrible about it.


At about 2 in the morning, I woke up to my daughter screaming to the top of her lungs. Her bedroom is on the other side of the house, but I was in there in about 2 seconds. She was sitting up in bed crying. I asked her what was wrong. She was crying and she said, "I don't want you to die, mommy." I told her I wasn't going to die. And she asked me how I knew. I really didn't know what to say to that. But I told her I just knew. But she asked me why her daddy had to die then. I told her that sometimes things like that happen. I told her we could talk about it today after school. I don't know what to say to her. I let her come sleep with me last night so she wouldn't get scared again, but she will be out of school in a couple hours, and I just know she is going to ask more questions. I need help please. I feel so bad. I don't know why she waited so long to ask about it because he died over a year ago, and it never seemed to bother her too much. She was sad, but she went to his funeral. And the only thing she said about it then was, "Is daddy going to heaven?" I told her yes and she never talked about him again until now. I need to know what to tell her when she gets home.
she is 5 years old


I've been thinking about this for almost a month now with nothing coming to mind. My daughter went to visit her father sometime last month, when she came back she kept saying to me, "Daddy stupid, daddy stupid." (She's two.) She refused to stop saying it no matter what I did or say unless I said it back to her. Trying to avoid talking about him at all (if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all, especially in custody battles), especially something like that, what am I suppose to do!?

I do not talk badly about my ex around my daughter at all, so I don't know where she could have picked it up from. If something like this comes up again, and it will, what am I suppose to say to her, or do to make her stop without saying it back? Please, no rude answers, thank you.


I can't believe how she is acting! Her mother came home from the hospital yesterday after a minor surgery, and my wife went up to the hospital in the morning to bring her home and spend the day with her. I was left in charge of the house and kids, and before she left she said it would be nice if, instead of spending the day drinking and letting the kids tear up the house, I would get everyone together and go to church. Well, I was squirming at the thought of that, and I know she could tell, because she said that if I was good and did the church thing she'd bring home some surprise for me. Well, the surprise part sounded okay, so I said that I would.

Well, when I got the kids up and said we were all going to go to church, they started whining, saying church was boring, and that they wanted to get ready for Halloween. I said no, that we were going to church, so everyone get ready. They whined and complained, but started dragging themselves around. I went into the kitchen to see about breakfast.

Well, our five year old comes into the kitchen and says he's thirsty, so I said for him to go to the fridge and get out a juice box to drink, but he grabbed one of my beers by mistake, so I had to take it from him and exchange it for a juice box, telling him, "No, this one is daddy's drink; here's your juice." Well, I really intended not to start drinking, but it was already in my hand, so I thought one wouldn't hurt.

Well, the other kids came into the kitchen and my oldest daughter started in on me when she me drinking the beer, saying I would surely be too drunk to drive, so no one could go to church. I said that was nonsense, that one beer wasn't going to inebriate me, but she kept up her protest and really started to irritate me, so I ordered everyone out of the kitchen. No sooner had they left the kitchen than the three girls started arguing over hair barrettes, and my yelling at them to knock it off did no good; my head was starting to hurt from the noise, so I had another beer, just to stop my headache.

My daughter comes back in the kitchen, sees the empty beer can, and me drinking the new one, and starts hollering again that I'm too drunk to drive, and I just gave up; if they didn't want to go to church, fine. Well, we got through breakfast, although they said their mother wouldn't like me giving them leftover pizza and cola, but I told them their mother wouldn't mind what they ate for breakfast if they didn't tell her, now would she? Third beer.

After breakfast, the kids were all hyper about Halloween, and wanted to go shopping for Halloween stuff. I was on my fourth beer and thought they should learn that crap like that is expensive, so I told them that when I was a kid we never bought costumes or decorations, but made them ourselves. I told them to look around the house for stuff they could use for homemade costumes and decorations.

After that, we had a great time! I joined in on the fun, helping them cut up sheets for ghost costumes, use their mother's makeup kit to make them look like ghouls, etc. I got inspired, and transformed our son into an impressive punk-rocker, even shaved a killer mohawk into his hair! I knew he would totally have the coolest costume in his kindergarten class.

Well, as I'm finishing his hair, I hear my wife walk into the living room, where she spied the couch covered with the silly string the kids had sprayed on it to look like spider webs. I heard her say, "Oh, God", then start yelling, "Jack! WHERE ARE YOU? WILL YOU COME HERE, PLEASE?" I knew from the sound of her voice I was in trouble then.

It didn't matter that the kids and I had had a great day, she just dragged me through the house, shrieking as she found each new thing to complain about. I am not too certain what she was carrying on for; something about 1500 thread count sheets not being good for costumes; after fourteen beers, I wasn't listening too hard. She also wasn't happy with her makeup being "destroyed", as she put it, and why hadn't I kept my promise to go to church and not drink?!

Well, she was being so unreasonable then, that my protests that the kids had practically put the beer in my hand and forced it down my throat made no impression on her. I insisted that the kids didn't want to go to church anyway, and their costumes were lovely. Well, she went on a tirade, sent the kids to bed, and made me sleep on the couch. She never did give me the surprise she promised. :(

Why can't she see this wasn't my fault? And what is her problem with the kids having some Halloween fun?


I'm starting to feel really bad because my 4 year old daughter is feeling very left out since the new baby. Her behavior has turned for the worst and even though my husband takes her out on Sunday's for daddy-daughter day, and we do a lot of activities with her and she's even home now during the day with me and we are always together...she keeps throwing fits when we pay attention to our 3 month old son. She doesn't even like him anymore, we will say, "Wanna hold the baby?" and she will come over and scream, "NOOOOO!" in the babys ear and run away. She has never acted like this, not even in the terrible 2 stage!! What else is there to do to make her feel like she is included when we DO spend a lot of our time with her? My husband has gotten angry about it and thinks she is just spoiled and ungrateful.


My husband and I have been trying to find a way to fight for custody of his daughter (my step-daughter). She is two years old. Her mother is very young and has 3 children under 4, by 3 different guys. She and her latest 'baby daddy' live together. None of them work. We have suspicions that other people are living in the house as well, and have assumptions who they might be. None of these people work (4 adults, 3 children), and all of them do drugs. The mother's boyfriend has drug charges and domestic violence charges against him in the past. There is absolutely NO conversation between them and us - we do not know when she has doctors appointments, illnesses, allergies, ect. All they want is the child support check and a baby sitter! We try to get her as much as we can. She has come home (to our house) many times with diaper rashes so bad it bled and hurt to change her! She has been potty trained at our house but they do not work with her at all so every weekend, we must train her again. We suspect they do not pay attention to her, probably just stick her in her room with her older sister and ignore them. There is absolutely NO conversation; we have no clue how she is treated in the house. They have not had a job in atleast the past year and a half. My husband didn't know he had a child until she was 9 months old - when the welfare checks stopped! and then she wanted the child support and wouldn't let him see her! We know there are drugs in the house because they have security cameras outstide (but the house is a shack!) We are trying desparetly trying to save money for an attorney but that's easier said than done. And we are scared to talk to the social services in case they don't 'find' anything. I know it's really hard to take a child from its mother, but if you can see the couple and my husband and I, it is obvious who is going to provide the best life for the child. Does anyone have any advice for us?! I love that little girl with all my heart and our patience is running short.
We have a journal for about a year now with every time we talk to them, what time, and pictures of all of the diaper rashes. The boyfriend has threatend us many times. We went to the state police dept. and they told us it was a 'he said, she said' kind of thing, so now we record every conversation - and it is legal as long as one person in the conversation is aware of the recording.


Sleep is impossible.

She hears pounds on the walls, thumps and clawing on the floor.
The worst are the horrendous, murderous screams.
Screams crying for help, and of hopelessness.

a�?I'm not afraid,a�? she would think.
Then she realizes she is scared to death.

Scared to get up?
No.
Scared to see the ghastly images?
Maybe.
Scared to help?
Yes.

She sits up, puts on her bunny slippers, and starts walking.
a�?I'm not afraid.a�?

The room seems like it goes on for miles.
a�?I'm not afraid.a�?

She finally gets to the white cracked door with the rusty bronze handle.
Her hands are shaking.
a�?I'm not afraid.a�?

She walks down the hall.
Step by step, inch by inch.
She's getting closer to the terrible room.
a�?I'm not afraid.a�?

She reaches the door.
One more handle to turn.
The door screeches.
a�?I'm not afraid...a�?

She sees a man and a woman.
The woman is on the floor covered with a sheet.
Her bloodshot eyes are filled with fear.
The man is on hovering over the woman with a knife.
He smiles an evil smile, exposing his yellow, chipped teeth.
The knife goes down.

With every ounce of courage she has in her tiny thirty pound body, she miraculously yells,

a�?STOP!a�?
The man turns.
The knife stops in midair.

Her legs are trembling, her lips are quivering.

The girl cries,
a�?Daddy, what are you doing to Mommy?a�?

The man threw back his head and let out a long, malicious laugh.
a�?Why, baby girl, what does it look like I'm doing?a�?

He starts to approach the girl

The mother extended her hand to the girl.
Her eyes filled with tears and fear for her daughter, rather for herself.

a�?Honey, go back to bed,
It's not safe here.a�?

a�?Yes,a�? the father added.
His head turned to the side, his fiery-red eyes widened.
a�?It's not safe here.a�?

The brave little girl stepped into the blood-soaked room.

The mother gasped.
a�?No,a�? she whispered.

a�?Your mother's right, you know. You shouldn't be here,a�? the father said as he drew near the girl with knife grasped firmly in his large hand.

The girl screamed and began to run.
***
The girl woke up in a cold sweat, her entire body was shaking with anxiety.
a�?It was just a dream,a�? she thought.

She grabbed her blanket and teddy bear, placed them by her side, and lie back down.

Suddenly, there was a rustle in the closet.
The door creaked open, and a tall, greasy man with yellow chipped teeth emerged with a knife in his pocket.

The girl let out a weak whimper and covered herself with a her blanket.

a�?Aw, it's okay, baby girl,a�? he said.
a�?Here, why don't you come into this room down the hall, it's more comfortable and you'll sleep better in there.a�?

The father stretched his hand out to his daughter and lead her to the blood-soaked room.
ps i wrote this last year: sophomore year haha.


People do it in Church,(my Mom),post comments on her FB call her that all the time and It bothers me..I can't stand it. I am her daughter and I don't even know half the people who walk around calling her Mommy..makes me cringe..


I'm 23 and have a 5 year old daughter. I got pregnant at the age of 18 and even if it was an accident, the minute I found out I was pregnant, I was in love with my baby. The same didn't happen with her father and he made it very clear to me he didn't need "this shit" and that he didn't want to be a part of our daughter's life.
Now, at school, they're coming up with this kind of "bring daddy to school day" and my daughter is getting pretty upset with it. She's being asking a lot about about daddy, where he is, why he's not with her like the other kids, if and why daddy doesn't love her... I just don't know how to deliver an answer without hurting her. What should I say? Anyone in the same position? I'm getting desperate..


My boyfriends daughter is almost four and I honestly think she is going to ruin our relationship. The kicker is I am pregnant and I don't want to lose him. She always gets the "she is so sweet" impression across but with me it's always "daddy do it" or she tells me to leave her alone. I have noticed that I am the one who sees what she does wrong as he allows her to do whatever she wants. I try and tell her what's not okay and what she can do. I understand maybe I should just keep my mouth shut but I can't stand the way she treats me. I can never do anything. Now he yells at me saying why did you make her cry or whatever when literally I don't say anything to her to make her cry. It's ruining our relationship, she has treated me this way for two years and now it's my fault in his eyes. Is there any way she acts like this because she already has a mother figure?


Sorry, just had to put a little humor into this.

This is REALLY long & please have the heart to read it.

I'm 18 years old & my dad passed away 10 years ago (when I was 8 years old) from a heart attack. In the last 10 years, my mom has had 5 long-term relationships (that I'll admit to, anyway).

The first guy "Bob" lived (& still does) in another state & we only had 3 real visits w/ him. He would've been an okay step-dad, except for the fact that he made me very uncomfortable & still does. When I was 10 years old, he kissed me on the lips twice...one was before he left for the airport when he visited us & the other was really random & for some reason we were alone in his room. I have kept in touch w/ him through the years, simply because I'm friends w/ both of his sons (who are 18 [almost 19] & 13 [almost 14]) & also, I have a hard time saying goodbye to people. This man began dating a woman who had a daughter who is my age (2 days older actually). My friend (his son) & the woman's daughter became quick friends & I somehow befriended her too. We have remained really close friends throughout the past 3-4 years & I'm actually more close w/ her than I am w/ my mom's ex-boyfriend's son. We have talked on several occasions about this man & she said that when she was 14, he asked her what her bra size was. Also, he took pics of her & her friends swimming & barely paid any attention to his girlfriend (her mom). "Bob" has said some things over the past few years that are leading me to believe he's a potential pedophile. The biggest one was I told him a while back that a former teacher of mine would often stare at my chest & "Bob" goes "Well, it's kind of hard not to notice...". I have told my mom about these things, but she says it doesn't matter now since I'm 18 & if he was a pedophile, he probably wouldn't want me since I'm no longer jailbait. WTF?

Okay so then she dated another guy (this isn't in the right order I don't think) who was an alcoholic & a rocker. I was pretty close w/ him, though my mom didn't tell us until way after they broke up that the guy was slightly abusive.

My mom dated another guy who ended up breaking up w/ her because he couldn't handle us kids (I have 2 older brothers), which was dumb because he raised 2 kids of his own & had a granddaughter.

The next guy ended up being a total a**hole & completely ditched her after she was diagnosed w/ epilepsy. She almost died in summer 2005 & whenever she'd call him from the hospital, he'd make up excuses as to why he couldn't visit.

In June 2007, my mom started dating a guy who is now my step-dad. They dated for a little over a year before he proposed to her & they got married in a judge's chamber in December 2008, but we moved in w/ him in August 2008. Things were fine from the start, but soon went downhill. The best way to sum it up is now they're about to get divorced because they argue every single day (almost literally from dusk till dawn), my step-dad is a former military man & an alcoholic & just recently started becoming abusive & my mom is just as abusive back. This weekend, my step-dad went to stay in a hotel (he's currently there) because my mom had to call the cops on him for abusive, except they didn't arrest him.

I have been looking for a stable father figure for the last 10 years since my dad died & I've really been lacking. This has caused me to have crushes on & even love a handful of authority figures (I've loved 3, crushed on MANY)...teachers, administrators, police officers, etc. People get onto me about it, but they just don't understand.

Where can I find a stable father figure? because it's really started to affect me emotionally & I'm starting to wonder if I'll ever have anybody I can look to as a potential father figure. What would you do if you were in my situation?


I have a cousin before we lived @ 1 Roof (1 House), our relationship is very good. Because we rarely see 1 others..
But now we live @ 1 roof ! And I feel after living with her for maybe 2 months, I realized she was an "LIAR"!!

She very good at "Seeking Attention" to All people she know ! And I Don't Know What Purpose She Did That !
She Also reported all the activities we did to her parents ! (And the Important is her Daddy like to Spread out about Family Story to other family & his friends !! Parents & daughter are same !!)

She told her parents about the opposite of what was happening about me ! with other family also do that ! Then.. her Daddy would scold me out !! her Daddy didn't check 1st about that report. He only believes in one side only !

Yea.. Of Course, it is true that a good daddy was always believing the words of his daughter / son ! But would be wrong if check first the truth ????

& The Finally I decided to Not speak with her anymore ! If don't something very important, I'm not going to talk..

Anyway, is it my choice was right or wrong ??
I really don't know what Should I do anymore..
I have never do anything wrong to her, but why she would do that to me ?


Is there have someone who can give opinions to me ?
Thank's . . .


ok, i am temporarily living at my parent in laws house with my husband. and every time they go somewhere, i seemed to be dragged along with them. i am tired of it, and feel like i am a child that has to go everywhere with mommy and daddy.

i know i live in their house, but i respect them in many ways, and i just feel like tonight going to this party, i should not have to go.

tonight is a party of the moms friend, whom i never met. the moms friends daughter is having and engagement party. i never met her either.

i just don't feel like celebrating an engagement party with strangers, let alone celebrate an engagement party, when i am getting frustrated and have problems in my own marriage.

how can i tell them that i don't want to go, without offending them? and am i being anti-social for not wanting to go? i told my husband, and he answers, don't go if you don't want to go, but he says it very sarcastically and i know he doesn't mean it. he is going too. because his mommy and daddy say so.
i've already faked sick for other events, and i wish to move out soon, but the way things look, i'll be living here for another 4 months.


We have a 14 month old daughter and I was just wondering about some things I could do with her to help her "remember" her daddy while he is gone. I have ordered her a daddy doll and there are pics all over the house, we also video recorded some messages, he will be gone a year and I was just wondering if anyone had any other ideas that I haven't thought about


Ok, this is really hard for me to talk about. In July 2008 I started to wonder if my my 3 year old daughter was being molested. She was acting out in ways that I did not feel was appropriate for a three year old, such a touching herself and saying things. At first I did not suspect her father, but when I brought it up to him he did not react the way I felt a father should react. Basically he just through his hands in the air and said "well if you think I did this then there is nothing I can say to change your mind, thata��s it I'm going to jail" I thought this reaction was so strange that I decided to pursue the issue behind his back and finally told my mother. We did not go to CPS right away but instead went to the ER in a different town to have her checked. Her exam a the ER came up negative, saying she had no signs of physical abuse. We were quick to drop it thinking that I was just over reacting. I was happy to do so for a few months thinking maybe she had seen something on tv. But then she became chronically constipated, and one day when I was drying her off from her bath I noticed that her bottom looked really sore and irritated, I then asked her if anyone had ever touched her on her butt, and she preceded to tell me her daddy did. This time I was done just asking questions, my mother called CPS, and they took us to get her examined by a specialist, the exam came up negative again, and we were sent to a child psychologist. During this time I told my husband I needed a divorce. After weeks of seeing the psychologist he told me my daughter was a normal 3 year old with no signs of abuse. Naturally I was relieved, but still decided to pursue the divorce for other reasons, I was hoping to just be able to set up regular visitation with her father, feeling satisfied with the psychologist findings. So things have been for several months her father has been in and out of our lives taking her every now and then but for never more then a day. My daughters attitude had improved greatly, and she was no longer constipated, she often asked about her dad but never seemed to upset that he was not around. Recently he asked me if he could have her more often, so this last weekend she spent 3 days with him, she seemed Ok, but I notice her touching herself today and I asked her where she had learned to do that, and she told me her daddy showed her. Typing this now the answer seems aperient, but you have to under stand the its been just over a year since my first suspicions and in that short amount of time have up rooted my daughters life, lost family and friends, and put her through more stress then a child her age should go through. I cana��t do this again and leave feeling like Ia��m over reacting or crazy. I still have yet to finalize the divorce because of these fears. Any advice I can get on this subject would be greatly appreciated, I am lost and searching for answers, I feel like I am at the end of a mental rope.
Thank you everyone for your support and compassion I am very great full for your advise. I am going to get a hold of the child psychologist again and tell him my concerns, thankfully there are no plans to see her father any time soon. I just hope that one day we can put this all behind us, and I can raise her to be a happy well adjusted adult. Thank you again God bless.


my daughter (who i thought was my innocent angel) just told me she is puhhhh reg nant! ya'll gotta be kidding me!!! and she dont even know who her baby daddy is! whats a sugar momma to do???


I asked my uncle to give me away for my wedding in two weeks. He is my favorite uncle and I would like any suggestions on what song to play. I don't want anything with "daddy" in the title because he isn't my daddy. However, he is very special to me.
rascal flatts is the mother/son song. I think I may go with "I hope you dance". still not sure though.


I am 23 i have a 4 yr old daughter and it didnt work with her daddy. Now i am 7 weeks pregnant with a mans baby we are not married and he doesnt believe in commitment! We were planning on moving in together since im pregnant and being pregnant with emotional breakdowns i would just shut up instead of crying and screaming. we have been fighting over stupid things!! Now we are on the edge of breaking up and decided not to live together. My daughter thinks of him like a father and i love him but am i wasting my time with someone who never wants a commitment and doesnt believe in marriage? Im confused if i should let us break up and be a single mom for 2 kids or if i should try harder? I am at my ends with this and i stay stressed out scared that both of my babies are coming from a broken home! What do I do?


My husband and I live alone and have been trying to buy a home for some time now. Not saying that what he just got use was not a good deal and it will be ours but why now? Here is what I mean. We have looked at small homes and now that his daughter(mother of 3 boys) has decided to divorce her husband, my husband buys a 5 bedroom trailer for just the 2 of us? Come on what do we need that much room for? Are they planning stuff without me? I will not live with her because she is a 29 year old Daddy's Brat and a bitch. She takes over my home now and every time she is around my husband treats me like nothing. Do I just wait and see or take a chance and ask now? He left his second wife because she was smart enough not to leave with the daughter. What should I do?


My daughter's daddy brought her up here to work to have lunch. Afterwards, we walked her around the office to meet people. We were talking to two coworkers when my boss came by. They were saying how cute she is and my boss said, "you're gonna be a real ladykiller." I blurted out, "well, she is a lady" and then said, "...but it could happen" to try to lighten the mood. He was like, "oh, I'm sorry. I knew that." (She did have on navy blue and she has short hair, so I wasn't terribly surprised.)

So then we walked by my boss again and he said, "I'm still blushing. I'm so embarrassed. I'll never make that mistake again." He is a very nice guy, but now I wonder if I was out of line because I corrected him in front of people. What do yall think?
no thumbs-down from me.


for her age, i cant make her understand that it's a disorder that has no treatment or even medication. but whenever she develops blisters, she just cries so helplessly and she even asks me to give her medication to 'cure' the blisters ( she can speak well for her age). most of the times i'll just apply some baby lotions and lie to her that i'm applying medication and that'll help ease the pain. what's worse is sometimes she develops really big blisters. and when she gets them, she gets fever too. i dont know what's the connection, maybe she gets fever out of the pain. what can i do to help her ease the pain?

she took it after her daddy. he still gets blisters but he's a man.. im quite worried about my daughter because she often gets blisters around her waist area where there's pressure from the napkins and diapers. even a new pair of shoes causes blisters on her toes, etc.. i wonder how much of suffering she has to endure when she grows up and starts wearing undergarments and even sanitary pads..