neighbours daughter

But to wit, one perk I know of, I can spy on the neighbours daughter in the shower with my new telescope.a�? a�?I guess people just love money nowadays son. We live to work and buy lots of useless toys. Such a shame, really. ...Reminds me of when I was 16 n got my neighbours daughter pregnant... Her dad came over Shot Gun in hand, Thank God I wasn't home... And I also thank God that we moved 2 days later... LOL Lucky SOB I am ...We talked about weather and getting colds and not dressing warmly enough and as the conversation drifted to clothes, I had the thought of giving all the clothes I was going to donate to Value Village to my neighbour's daughter. ...Oct 24, 1915 Devonport HMT Empress of Britain Dear Mother & all,- Well we are nearly loaded up and expect to leave at 5 PM today. It is now noon and since 4 AM we have embarked about 4000 troops, there are still more to come. ...Disgusted neighbours have called the police to the X Factor house in London, after they saw young girls flashing their breasts to John and Edward. ... a�?I've got a young daughter and it's not what you want.a�? An X Factor spokesperson defended the contestants saying: a�?People can be seen from the road because the house has huge windows. But the twins are very careful to turn the lights off when they change. a�?The X Factor has ongoing liaisons with the police to ensure that all ...Most of our neighbours are well-heeled and don't seem to worry about money. Not us. We've had to make many sacrifices to keep the dream alive - no foreign holidays and I buy my children's clothes in charity shops. ...My left side neighbour's daughter, Yasmin got married today~ Me and my family were invited to her wedding lunch, and i tidy up myself and then we walk to the city hall near my house for the lunch as they held the lunch there. ...So we had a situation here today. My son who's 5 often plays with the boy next door who's 7. He's a bit unruly, and tries to get my kids to be sneaky and get away with stuff, but generally not a bad.Thesun.co.uk reports that Madonna was recently spotted leaving her favourite London restaurant Locatelli's with Beatles legend Paul McCartney and his daughter Stella. Paris Hilton's neighbour at New Pad offers her landlord more money to ...It is not like the tale of the Two Cities but my two neigbours are different and I like to write a post about them. Let me call them Up neighbour and Down neigbour since our houses are on a sloppy road and they are at different levels. ...
i hear almost everything my neighbour does, i just spoke with her about it and she told me that she tries to be quite she is very kind but i have an assignment to finish and i had to talk to her politely of course

She said that her daughter cant study too because there is music from down stairs and she can hear almost everything

she says that it might be the insulation's fault

i really HATE THIS APARTMENT


WHAT CAN I DO?

HOW CAN I MAKE BETTER INSULATION?

thanks
MY LIFE SUCKS

THANKS I'LL TRY EAR PLUGS


We both love cats and had them before as pets. Our neighbour gave us one from her daughter, who now has a dog. The cat is sweet and good natured, but hides under our bed the entire time and it hasn't eaten of drunk anything properly for the last 2 days. Is this shyness normal behaviour and how long must we wait before it comes out?


I feel the need to invite some neighbours over, because I think I am very indebted to them. These neighbours are a family -father, mother and their 3 chlidren, the 2 of which are adults. I actually feel mostly indebted to the mother and the daughter -who is a friend of mine- because they have done a lot for me, such as hosting me when I locked myself out of my house and taking me to my morning class a day I didn't feel well. And all this even though I never helped them in anything important!
The problem is that my parents don't seem very excited about the idea of inviting the whole family over, as they don't like their oldest son, with whom I had an affair some years ago. They also may feel somewhat uncomfortable to his parents for this reason. What is more, I have the impression this guy (the one I call "the oldest son") still has a crush on me and would probably want to come to our house...!
I think I need to repay to this family for what they 've offered to me, but my parents would prefer just to invite over my friend (the daughter)!
Who do you think is right? Is there any way to persuade my parents it's ok to invite these neighbours over, or it will not work?
I cook terrible :( ... But I may try something else rather than inviting them all to the house.


i am a guy....and learnt this the hard way as a kid...
....i was about 9 years n i was at my neighbour's place n when i touched some stuff of his daughter who was 15 then even after a warning....she rammed her knee twice in my groin........
.....it was the first time i was hit there n i thought what the hell has happened with me??........has she done some magic to cause me severe pain.


A women offered to care for the eight-year-old daughter of a neighbour...
...who were going away for the weekend. On the Saturday morning, she made breakfast, laying a generous helping of bacon and eggs in front of the child. "Mummy always serves hot pancakes for breakfast," said the eight-year-old.

So Mary, very eager to oblige, hurried into the kitchen and quickly prepared a plate of hot pancakes, which she laid in front of the girl. "No, thank you," she said.

"But I thought you said your mother always has hot pancakes for breakfast!" said Mary in surprise.

"She does," said the child. "But I don't eat them."


Basically, every so often my next door neighbour goes on holiday and I look after her moggy.
Last time she went she left some little muffins on a plate in the kitchen, and I didn't know if they were for me or not, but they were gone for 2 weeks so my Dad ate them anyway.
Now she's on holiday again and she's left some halloween cupcakes on a plate, these have been decorated by her little daughter, and just left out with some halloween sweets, they won't be back for halloween, so I don't know if they are for me or not, they aren't covered and they have been left in the same place as the muffins last time.
Help, is it good manners to eat these?


1)An extraordinarily handsome man decided he had the God-given responsibility to marry the perfect woman so they could produce children beyond comparison.

With that as his mission he began searching for the perfect woman. After a diligent, but fruitless, search up and down the east coast, he started to head west. Shortly thereafter he met a farmer who had three stunning, gorgeous daughters that positively took his breath away. So he explained his mission to the farmer, asking for permission to marry one of them.

The farmer simply replied, "They're all lookin' to get married, so you came to the right place. Look them over and select the one you want."

The man dated the first daughter. The next day the farmer asked for the man's opinion.
"Well" said the man, " She's just a weeeeee bit, not that you can hardly notice, but pigeon-toed."

The farmer nodded and suggested the man date one of the other girls; so the man went out with the second daughter.

The next day, the farmer again asked how things went.
"Well," the man replied, "She's just a weeeee bit, not that you can hardly tell, cross-eyed."

The farmer nodded and suggested he date the third girl to see if things might be better. So he did.

The next morning the man rushed in exclaiming, "She's perfect, just perfect! She's the one I want to marry!" So they were wed right away.

Months later the baby was born. When the man visited nursery he was horrified: the baby was the ugliest, most pathetic human you can imagine. He rushed to his father-in-law asking how such a thing could happen considering the parents.

"Well," explained the farmer, "She was just a weeeee bit, not that you could hardly tell, pregnant when you met her."


2)Little Johnny was in the garden filling in a hole when his neighbor peered over the fence.

Interested in what the cheeky-faced youngster was doing, he politely asked, "What are you up to there, Johhny?"

"Well, my goldfish died," replied Johnny tearfully, without looking up,"and I've just buried him."

The neighbour was concerned, "That's an awfully big hole for a goldfish, isn't it?"

Johnny patted down the last heap of earth then replied...
"That's because he's inside your cat!"


I'm 24 and I've been in a relationship with this girl (same age) for 3 years now . We really get along well and we enjoy each other's company . when I first introduced her to my mum , she ill treated her as a guest and kicked her out of the house saying that I was already engaged . I was shocked when I heard that my marriage is to be arranged with a girl who's the daughter of a business tycoon . I met my so-called 'future wife' and I was really unhappy with her personality and attitude .
Anyway , I tried to protest in subtle ways like sneaking out so that I can meet my gf . However , we got caught once when we were chatting online and after that , my mum's cancelled all means of communication with her . She's cancelled the Internet connection in my room (I'm at a cybercafe) , she attends to all my calls before I do and i'm not allowed to be out of the house after 8 or else she would humiliate me by whipping me in front of the neighbours . she's even said some really harsh things at my gf calling her a wh**e . because of that , my gf stopped talking to me now .
I'm scared that I'm losing my gf to this 'future wife' and I don't want to lose her . I tried to sit and talk with my parents , but they just snapped at me and said that they weren't that lucky ( they had an arranged marriage) . how do I escape this 'arranged marriage' crap and win my gf back ? i would really appreciate your help ....


4 You shall not make unto you any graven image, or any likeness of any thing that is in heaven above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth: 5 You shall not bow down thyself to them, nor serve them: for I the LORD your God am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the children unto the third and fourth generation of them that hate me; 6 And showing mercy unto thousands of them that love me, and keep my Commandments.

god is, as Richard Dawkins put it, "jealous and proud of it."

8 Remember the sabbath day, to keep it holy. 9 Six days shall you labour, and do all your work: 10 But the seventh day is the sabbath of the LORD your God: in it you shall not do any work, you, nor your son, nor your daughter, your manservant, nor your maidservant, nor your cattle, nor your stranger that is within your gates: 11 For in six days the LORD made heaven and earth, the sea, and all that in them is, and rested the seventh day: wherefore the LORD blessed the sabbath day, and hallowed it.

millions of christians work on the sabbath.

16 You shall not bear false witness against your neighbour.

yep. only ur neighbour.


One of my oldest friends & I seem to have nothing in common anymore. We have both changed & become different people to what we were 17 years ago when we met in High School. The problem is, I don't especially like the person she has become but I don't want to cut her out of my life until I have given her the chance to "mend her ways" so to speak.

I know I am going to have a bunch of people telling me that I have no right to expect her to change & perhaps it is me with the problem but honestly, she has become a pretty horrible person over the past few years. She steals, she lies, she takes drugs, she gets into fights, she has had her kids taken away from her by DoCS & they now live with her Mum & all of this because of some loser guy who rolled into her life 5 years ago.

The loser is no longer around but when he left she didn't go back to the person she used to be...if anything she got worse! I only hear from her when she needs something (money, bail, a place to crash, a ride to or from somewhere, etc)...

I now have a family of my own & am not prepared to have that kind of chaos & crime & drugs around my 13 month old daughter. Not to mention the fact that the last time I helped her out (I let her stay with us when I was pregnant for a couple of weeks because the cops told her not to leave town) so tried to sleep with my husband & did sleep with my 17 year old cousin. I just can't do it anymore. Anyway, she called me last night & asked if she could crash at my place on her way up the coast. She claims she has a job to go to at a club on the Gold Coast but as she doesn't have the money to fly up there & doesn't have a car she is going to try to hitch-hike her way from Sydney (about 1000km I think) & needs some place to "break up the journey". I told her I would have to talk it over with my husband & she is calling me back tonight.

So, I need some advice...I want to know how I can explain my position to her without making her mad enough to want to come here & confront me or cause a scene in front of my daughter. I really don't need that kind of grief...plus I don't want her upsetting our elderly neighbours...they are only just recovering from the last time she came to stay!!!!!!
Yeah, I'm not moving. I like it here & I'll be buggered if I'm going to uproot my family from a really nice area on the off chance that an old friend might get upset when I tell her I don't want to be her friend again.

Just so we are clear here...I'm not at all scared of her...I just don't want her bringing her problems into my life anymore because I am a mother now & I have to think of my family before I think of some person who I used to be close to!


My neighbour is about 19 and has an approx 3 year old daughter. Our walls are very thin so you can hear pretty much everything that goes off. Everyday i hear her screaming and swearing at the little girl to the point where shes in tears. Its really foul language aswel and often she calls her a f-ing little b-itch and sometimes worse.

I often hear the girl telling her mum she hates her and always seems to be crying

I want to do something but the kind of people she has round the house makes me a bit scared to get involved.

What would you do?

Thanks in advance to all that answer x


My neighbour is about 19 and has an approx 3 year old daughter. Our walls are very thin so you can hear pretty much everything that goes off. Everyday i hear her screaming and swearing at the little girl to the point where shes in tears. Its really foul language aswel and often she calls her a f-ing little b-iatch and sometimes worse.

I often hear the girl telling her mum she hates her and always seems to be crying

I want to do something but the kind of people she has round the house makes me a bit scared to get involved.

What would you do?

Thanks in advance to all that answer x


My daughters next door neighbour has been left two cats, they are the very expensive ones. Anyway the female is quite nervous and just keeps herself to herself, but the male is an out and out pest! He goes into every ones house, has no fear at all, even went into my daughters babies room, into cot waking baby and scratching his face. We have tried everything to prevent this but to no avail, this blooming cat is terrorising the whole street. One poor cat has had numerous injuries due to this other cat. What can be done? we have tried to talk to the owner who just says, oh well, cats will be cats, there is nothing she can do. But if this this a young person, we could call the police and get an asbo, truly this cat is a menace, but we just don't know what to do?
sweetfish, erm, I thought about that, so I not call the police.
thanks, my daughter tried the water, this cat is not scared of water, it's the most brazen cat ever, its specially bred looks like a wild cat. The rspca have been informed, so we will see. PS. can't just kill a cat.
anne s- no my daughter does not leave her doors open for strays, she has four children and needs to have windows open at times, we have no plans to harm the cat, but think the owner should be held responsible.


I would like to teach my child at home as well as at school. I do not think she is learning enough and there are no specific structured lessons. I need to find out what is relevant for her year at school and how to gain the information to teach her.

My daughter is 6 (year 2). I'm finding it hard to understand why they focus on a child being able to do joined up writing before they can spell. The teachers do not correct her spelling and they say at this stage that's not important! She has no homework at all and to be honest talks more about watching films in school time and had a trip to the cinema to watch "Horton hears a who" as part of her school day. She asked me today what History is and is not learning about geography as she says england is our world instead of our country. Am i expecting too much? My neighbours daughter is at a different school but in year 1 and has 3 lots of homework a week and is learning history and geography.


Can someone translate this for me to french?

It was sunset. The sun was going down slowly, painting the sky red. As the sun went down, it reached the cross on the temple at the end of the field. It took less than an hour. As the children played, nobody realized that some of them felt something strange. Ghosts, maybe? Whatever caused that strange feeling, it was gone as the children got into their games even more.
And then, when the sun reached the cross and its shadow was seen on the field, something strange has happened.
The shadow wasn't a cross.
It was the shadow of a dog or maybe a wolf. The first one to realize this was a little blonde girl with a Teddy bear in her hands. The little girl showed it to her mother, who was also unsure about this. All parents got scared and took their children home.
When the sun was no longer seen and the full moon was in the middle of the sky, rounded by stars a dog came out of its house and howled at the moon.
Next morning the neighbours heard a horrified scream of a woman, calling out desperately for her daughter. The mother ran out of the house, looking for her child, with a Teddy bear in her hands...


Thanks in advance!


Hey my name is Chloe and I am 14 and yes I am a girl.

Well my neighbour is about 28 and he divorced his wife becuase apparently she was pregnant (with their second child) and admitted she cheated on him and then she was also in a car crash and lost the baby and almost lost her life and he was stressed and didnt want to deal with her anymore and divorced her on what could have been her death bed!

We let her stay at our house and she is really good now, she finally got an internship as a pharmacist and she is staying at her sisters condo, next week she will become a real pharmacist at Walmart and make 45$ an hour and she is planning on buying a house down our street so she can be close to her daughter which is living with our neighbour which is her daughters father.

The daughters name is Keesha and yes the are white, sorry people always assume someone named Keesha is black, well maybe 3 or 4 months ago I was in my backyard and I was reading and I was also gardening and I was planting some roses near the fence, and I peeked through the fence and I saw Keesha sitting on her dads lap and he was like bouncing her up and down, it did look sexual but of course lots of fathers do this as like play for the girl, not sexual just fun and I thought nothing of it.

Also it was Keesha's birthday and I baby sit her sometimes and I bought her a toy she wanted sooo bad and it is like a small cooking kit and omg whens he was playing with it in her room I was helping her assemble it and she took a pointy part and started like masturbating and I researched and read some kids to masturbate and I was like what are you doing and she was like it feels good or whatever.

I was sooo shocked but I didnt tell her father. Also sometimes in the morning I hear like weeping moans coming from their backyard like a coooo oooo ooo owww ooo owwooo and I thought this was very odd

OOO yeah one tiem me and my cousin were baby sittign Keesha and my cousin took her to the bathroom to brush and Keesha used the bathroom too and my cousin said that she thinks she has a rash or something because her vagina looked very very red and it was like OPEN unlike others which are closed a lot it just looked stretched open a bit and Keesha was scratching!!!

Omg I think her father is raping her and turning her sex crazy becuase she figured out how she can get that feeling using toys and scratching and she does it alot!

Sometimes when she is riding her bicycle she like wiggles herself on the seat in a sexual position.


My daughter is 12 years old and loves Home and Away. She already has an agent which is giving some oppertunities but not many. She has been attending acting classes since she was 7 or 8 and has quite a lot of experience. How can i get her an ausition for a tv program for Home and Away or Neighbours when she lives in Perth?


My neighbour is 36 and married. He has a 16yearold daughter who has a friend the same age. This friend has now lost her virginity to this man and i cannot wrap my head around how that even happened. His daughter is that age how could he possibly see this girl as anything but a child?


I dated a guy casually for 3 months.he had an ex partner he was with 15 years,and 2 daughters.he said he didn't want his dad or neighbours seeing me as we weren't serious and it would upset his daughters.she lives a bit away,so he stays down 2 nights a weke with her,he says in a b&b.but he won't call me from there just text.now he has gone cold on me,he couldn't have sex with me for a bit.I don't know why!! As i am a model.then just dumped me.she is coming to his this saturday with the girls,and I Told him I would come up and introduce myself.he seems annoyed.what is going on here??


I dated a guy casually.he had an ex partner he was with 15 yrs,and 2 daughters.yet after 3 months he still tried to hide me from his neighbours,dad etc..as he didn't want his daughters to know he said.his ex lives a bit away,and he still stayed down there maybe 2 nighst a week.where he would not call me just text.he said he stayed in a b&b....now he has completely shut me out for no reason and refuses to see me.I know his ex is coming up on saturday with the girls,just to shop apparently.I told him i was going to come up and introduce myself to him,and he seems annoyed.what do i od here??


Silly Family

A silly family moved from one village to another. That family takes idiomatic expressions literally. The members of that family are Lisa, the mom; Frank, the dad; Grace, the grandma; Michelle, the daughter; and John, the son. One day a man tried to make friends with the silly family. After 30 minutes the man said a�?I should go home now ita��s raining cats and dogs (raining hard)a�? a�?Dona��t worry cats and dogs, wea��ll save youa�? the family shouted. The dad gets a trampoline and the five went outside. They didna��t find any cats and dogs. a�?They all dieda�? the five said sadly. The next morning, a woman knocked on their door asking if she can borrow a puncher. Frank, the dad, punched her face. The woman told about it to her husband and he got angry. Later on, the husband went to the dada��s house and said angrily a�?Ia��m very hot under the collar (very angry), youa��ll be punished for what you did to my wife and youa��ll face the music (be punished)a�? The dad gets ten candles, a collar, and a radio. The dad lights the ten candles and he places them around near the husband. He places the collar above his head. a�?Ia��m making you hot under the collara�? Frank said. He turns on the radio and he puts his face on the radio. a�?Ia��m doing the punishmenta�? Frank said. a�?Youa��re born yesterday (fooled easily)a�? the husband shouted angrily. a�?Wow! I am? Really? Thata��s very amazing! I grew very fasta�? the dad said in surprise. a�?Just pay me a��2,000 or else Ia��ll tell to the police about what you did to my wifea�? the husband shouted angrily. The dad paid him a��2,000. One day a woman made friends with Lisa. The woman said a�?Madonna is so popular that she set the world on fire (to be very famous)a�?. a�?Thata��s impossible to happen and so shea��s a devil wea��re not on earth, are we? Are we in heaven?a�? Lisa said in surprise. a�?Youa��re stupida�? the woman said and left. The next day, a man made friends with Lisa. The man interviewed her. He asked her this question a�?What do you plan to do in the future?a�? The man was shocked to hear her answer. a�?I plan to go to the sun and live therea�? Lisa answered. a�?Youa��re dumb and youa��re crying for the moon (to hope for something impossible)a�? the man said. Lisa cried and said a�?Moon! Moon!a�?. One day a boy fell in love with Michelle the daughter. He said to Michelle a�?Youa��re very pretty, youa��re the apple of my eye (favourite)a�?. a�?Really, Ia��m a beautiful apple in your eye. Please let me out! And how did I get in here?a�? Michelle said. a�?Ia��ll look for another girlfrienda�? the boy said. One day Grace, the grandma, went outside, then she overheard a neighbour say this a�?The people living in this house (the neighbour is pointing at the silly familya��s house) are a thorn in the flesh (annoying) because theya��re very stupida�? Grace was very surprised when she heard that. a�?Really, wea��re stupid thorns that are half thorn half human and we live in a house and we go to other peoplea��s skin to hurt thema�? Grace said in surprise. a�?Youa��re really very stupida�? the neighbour said. One day it is John the sona��s birthday. One of his friends greeted him Happy Birthday and gave him a present. The gift is a green shirt with an ugly design. a�?I hate green, this shirt is very uglya�? said John. a�?You look a gift horse in the mouth (to criticize something given to you)a�? the friend said. a�?Dona��t talk nonsense! How can a horse fit in your mouth? And you did not give me a horse, you gave me an ugly shirta�? John said annoyingly. One day John went outside to throw papers at a tree. A neighbour saw him and said to the boy a�?Youa��re chasing butterflies (to waste time in worthless activities)a�?. a�?Ia��m not chasing butterflies, Ia��m throwing papers at a tree and I dona��t see any butterflies arounda�? John said. One day Grace the grandma overheard a woman say this to her son. a�?Break a leg (good luck) in the dancing contest and try to bring home the bacon (to win in the contest). a�?Dona��t teach your son to do bad things he will be punished for that and why is a bacon the reward for the winner?a�? Grace said. a�?Youa��re dumba�? the son and her mother said and laughed. One day, Michelle heard the president of their village said this a�?Some people who are chosen by the people here to become Vice President or Treasurer of this village are not doing their job, we should separate the sheep from the goats (to distinguish the good and responsible members of a group from the bad or lazy members)a�?. a�?So those people are sheeps and goats? Amazing!a�? Michelle said. The president laughed at her. One day, Lisa heard a man said this to her wife a�?Ia��m so worried about my son, Ia��ll move heaven and earth (to do everything to make something happen) just to let him walk againa�?. a�?Thata��s impossible to move heaven and earth and that wona��t cure your sona�? Lisa said. The man laughed at her. John heard a woman say this to her son a�?Study hard so when you grow up youa��ll be in a bed of roses (in a comfortable life)a�?. a�?So people who study hard will just lie in a bed of roses, thata��s impossiblea�? J


hello, ok so the september gone my daughter started year 10 (gcse year) and its just been hell from day one, she has always been alot busier than normal teenagers, i feel shes taking too much on for herself, on the weekends if shes not walking the neighbours dog's she goes and helps down the rspca in the middle of doing coursework, babysitting her little brother (which i feel terrible for her having to do, i don't ask her she says she really wants to) and shes been ill for the past two weeks and shes missed i beleive ten days of school, which has put even more pressure on her as she hasnt just got the LOAD of course work shes now got all the catch up work and its all due in tomorrow and it got posted yesterday afternoon and we recieved it this morning. and shes upstairs drowning in work, im just getting so worried she has so much and we sat down and looked at her schedule/calender for the next week and we've whittled it down the best we can leaving her literally no time to herself. please any help? (i try and help her the best i can but im at work a hell of a lot and alot of the things she does on her own, e.g the dog walking which ive made her quit simply until she has caught up) please and thankyou.
Amber.


My neighbour says it reduces worms, and her daughter and people who rent, do it every few days.
My mum never cleaned up after hers, when she was 13-21.
Someone that lives down the road only does every week or so.
I have read that keeping cattle thing horses reduces worms.
And I have also read people only clean up their horses droppings to limit the damage of the grass.
Should I clean up after my horse, which I am getting. We have many fields which I will be able to switch, and if its good with cattle, I'll let it out with the 'dry' cows (pregnant cows).
But I'm wondering, because our fields are pretty large, and I don't know whether I will just section bits with electric fencing, if I have to clean up after it.
Sorry if it sounds a stupid question, but I've heard different things.

Thankyou

xxxx
Yes, I live on a large dairy farm.
I wouldn't put it with the cow heard - because some cows 'bully', and it would be harder to keep an eye on them.
I'll keep it in the feilds around my house, and if with cattle just the few dry cows.
My dad said something about when he feeds them silage (don't know how to spell it) I can't keep my horse in the same feild.

- Yeah I'm excited (: But I've been waiting since the end of July :( (adopting a horse)


Alsalam alaaikum. Inshallah kelekum mertaheen oo kelekum ebkhair jedan.

Unfortunately I can't share in your happiness. I'm in a horrible situation at the moment that it's making me very depressed so I would like everybody's opinions, mostly the religious perspective, about how I should handle myself.

My in-laws are terrible. My sister in law is very horrible to both my parents and is very disrespectful, and it hurts that my stupid brother is only encouraging her behaviour. In short she acts like she is the Queen of Sheeba and anything she says goes, or else.

She never brings her daughter, my neice, over and it pains me so much because I love children...so it hurts that I can't see my little angel either. What hurts even more is that she always takes her daughter and my horrible brother with her everyday to her mother's house. If anything what stings harder is how my brother treats his mother-in-law as if she was the woman who gave birth to him and raised him.

It just gets worse though...my sister-in-law's relatives are just as bad as she is. One of them is her first cousin who I can't abide being around. She is very childish, spoiled and immature to a degree you can't imagine :[
She's disrespectful to everyone, constantly lies to her parents, and pretends that she's this perfect little angel when she really isn't.

Now that I've converted and I've made my faith very clear to everyone, she's been making insulting me even more now. At first it was just slanders against my body. I know she's jealous of it because, elhamdulellah, God blessed me with a lot of energy which helps me stay fit. At the same time, thanks to my genetics, I've got a bit of a big chest and a bit of a butt, so in short it makes her very envious because she has none...

I didn't care about how she used to make fun of me at first, but now that I've converted, I am getting angrier at how she's insulting Islam. Look. I get everybody has their own opinions but there is a diplomatic way of disagreeing with someone. Saying things like "You're going to hell" etc. is not at all a way to get your opinion across. I can't put up with her slanders anymore. The fact that she's very...well...let's just say moraless? Esta'ferullah. I think you all get my drift of what type of a girl she is...I wouldn't care about the way she acts if only she didn't pretend to be innocent and if only she didn't pretend to be such a good girl and make me sound like I am worse than she is.

I know she's very insecure and at the same time I will not say that I am going to heaven because I don't know my own faith. A person can be very good, but the true believer of Allah will constantly ask for his forgiveness and only pray to him constantly that he'll be giving bounty and recluse in heaven :[

At the same time though I'm very hurt by these people. I don't like being around them. Their behaviour makes me feel so uncomfortable; they go against everything I believe in. I know that in Islam, and this is something I love so much about my religion, it says that we should live in tolerance and respect of others. We should not be ignorant and we should try to be open minded to possibilities, and if somebody hurts us then we must forgive them because life is too short. What's the point in holding a grudge?

I get all of this. Wallah I do. It's just so hard for me to try and follow through to be a good Muslim by listening to Allah subhana w taala and el-rasul sall-allah alaih w salem's advice because it's just so hard to forgive or be around such people that cause me great distress.

I know that in Islam, correct me if I'm wrong, it says we should avoid thing that cause us great harm, pain and distress. At the same time it says you should not ignore a person for more than three days (basically you need to try and love thy neighbour or at least be respectful) but what can I do?

The more I talk and hang around these people, the more they get this idea that I like to put up with their crap and that they're right and whatever. I'm not strong to be around this kind of behaviour.

I hate seeing someone be disrespectful to my loves ones and I also cannot tolerate somebody being rude to me.

I have constantly clashed with these people so many times before in the past, telling them that their words hurt and so on and so forth, but they're just so damn stubborn that estaaferallah it doesn't matter what I tell them, it just won't go through to their heads!

So, ya jamama...please...help me out here. Throw me a bone :[

What can I do in this situation to be a good Muslim without disrespecting God and going against everything our prophet sacrificed and faught for? :[

Jazaakum allah khair.
Thank you so much for the great advice everyone, except for the second commenter :s

That's just wrong. No offence but you put me in mind of the ignorant like Osama and the like. I pray that Allah SWT forgives you and shows you the right way in life by hopefully getting rid of your ignorance :s

As for why they hate us, I was so caught in my emotions and just in tears I didn't realize I left that reason out. They don't like our family because we're not from their social class. She took my brother because he worked so hard that he's on top of his game. Because of his underprivelleged life, he managed to work hard and Allah graced him with naama. He gave him so many good things, materialistically speaking, but I wish God blessed him with happiness and peace with oneself instead :s

They really hate our family because we're not, for want of a better word, of "their stock." In their eyes, we're below them and I'm so sorry but I just wish they could go to hell. Estaafer-allah :(
As for why both of them married each other...I don't think love was even involved in the equation. I thought so at first but the more I think about it the more I realized that they're both people that nobody likes. And if nobody likes them, who else would want them?

That's what I think though. Unless they're showing a different side to everybody else entirely than that just hurts even more because if that's the case, I can't believe they'll choose being kind to strangers over family.

Charity beings at home you morons :(


peace be upon me
peace be upon my mother
peace be upon my father
peace be upon my brother
peace be upon my sister
peace be upon my grandparents
peace be upon my son
peace be upon my daughter
peace be upon my neighbours
oeace be upon my friends
peace be upon my husband
peace be upon my wife
peace be upon those that do not like me
peace be upon those that I do not like
peace be upon all in my city/town/village
peace be upon my country
peace be upon all beings
peace be upon....is salaam ala....not sali allah...


Right..
Dont get me wrong, my family isnt like that off of shameless.. so far from it in fact, we live in a lovely area and have lovely neighbours, but were not snobs, or posh in fact.

but basically, just like every other teenager in the world, i swear.
not alot. but.. my mum said shes certain i swear when shes not around, and she doesnt get mad if i agree or anything.
so today, the dog came and sat on the sofa and my mum said 'haha, look what end you got' and i just had the urge to say 'oh as if i always get the ar*e end.'
i dont mean it disrespectful, and i dont swear alot or use it to offend.. i just want to be able to swear infront of my parents.
Im 15, and they had me fairly young, so they both swear alot, my grandparents swear and stuff.
and mums always joking with me daring me to swear. Like at my nans the other day she was going.. go on say it, say it, say Ar*e.

If i was your daughter, and i randomly swore one day (looking at the circumstances). . would you get mad?

do you think its acceptable to swear (not really bad words.. just A*se and stuff) at my age?

Thank you!

P.S.. please dont judge me, im like everyother teenager in the world, i just want to be open about it..
(even if you think your kids dont swear, or they say they dont.. trust me, 99.9% of them actually do.)

& my ex-boyfriend used to swear alot when our families were out together, and my mum never seemed to mind.
*** By swearing, im not trying to disrespect anyone... i really want to stress that point.


i am worried about my son ,hope i,m overreacting but cant stop worrying that he has aspergers or adhd. I have 3 other children who have never given me worry like this.He is very loving and loves a cuddle,thats no issue.He is fascinated by books and would let me read all day. Hes 2years 6 months. He can terrorise my 1 and four year old with growling at them taking their toys,pushing i put him on a naughty step which he gets but goes straight back to do the same thing.His words are good but he cannot string a sentance together.If he wants something and you dont understand he goes into a rage,for example if you pick something up that he wanted he will go into a screaming fit and put it back where you got it and .pick it up himself.His favourite phrase is whats that noise,he says it all the time to things i hadnt even realised.He will continuously say whats that even if he knows what it is and can say the word ,and goes into a tantrum if you dont say it. If i move his toys off the windowsill to dust he goes into a tantrum and puts them back there.His screaming could bring the house down,God knows what the neighbours think.He wont sit down and do as hes told at playgroup and i find it embarrassing.He gets more attention from me than my 1 and 4 year old as he is so demanding.He was only 13 months when i had my daughter and i worry maybe he has missed out on me a bit due to attention she needed.I love him so much but he can exhaust me!!!! like i say he is very loving ,goes to bed brilliantly.i know these good things can contradict adhd and aspergers,but i know their are different spectrums.I want to do right by him and my other kids in the way i deal with this.Any advice would really help
Yes he does line his trains up in a way,will play for ages with them.Also when we are out he says whats that all the time and unless you say exactly whats in his head like blue car, or lorry instead of truck he gets really frustrated.Hes like this with many things its like he thinks i can read his mind exactly!


Ok,so Im 18,never had any kids obiviously,so I want to hear from mothers who have been threw this.
What is safer for the woman and her baby?
Natural birth or C-section?
I know giving birth is natural,but if I ever want kids I would consider C-section first.
Why?This is gonna sound immature,but Im really terrified of labour pains.You always see ladies on Tv screaming like being skinned alive while giving birth.Again,I dont know if its true,Tv isnt very realistic.
Second,Im afraid of the baby getting "stuck" in the birth canal.
That happened to my neighbour and caused her daughter to be mentally challenged due to lack of oxigen.
And only "bad" thing about C-section I know is that it lives a scarr.

Yes,and I have problems with anemia so bleeding too much wouldnt be safe.

So mothers,let me hear your opinions about birth,Natural vs.C section
:)
O man,so many great answers from the bravest women ever,how will I ever pick the best answer :/


My 8 month old daughter prefers my husband any day, to me. Sometimes she even prefers my neighbours over me. I mean i will actully be holding her and she jumps out of my arms to go to them. She doesnt seem that excited to see me as she is when it is my husband or even my M-I-L. Anyone else has had such experiences? Does it mean that my absence doesnt make any difference to her and she will not miss me when i am away? It worries me so much.
I work too and infact i am away from home longer than my husband.....and by "missing" i dont mean crying and being miserable. I just mean being excited and happy to see me again.


Seriously our politicians and the parties they belong to are all absolute jokes. There is no accountability for any of their actions. They are wasteful, greedy and shameless. All they do is bash each other. If they spent as much time on important issues as they did talking crap things might actually be different.

Our Judicial System is the biggest freaking joke i've ever seen in my life. For example (and this is only one, i have a million more) google peeping tom in St. Catharine's, this man was caught on video numerous times looking into the windows of his neighbours washroom and teenage daughters room masturbating. The Crown dismissed the charges, even though the video evidence is amazingly clear, because "he didn't want to label the man a sexual offender because it would ruin his life". He is now harassing the young girls daily.

Im totally fed up. I love Canada and feel lucky to live here, but our government sucks. Besides writing letters what else can I do? Is it unrealistic to think anything will ever change?


I need to write a nature and nurture debate related to Mary's story.. Id be really happy if someone helps me out....

Mary is a white 75 year-old widow who lives by herself. Despite her difficulties with her mobility, Mary is able to carry out most domestic tasks for herself. For the last 12 years Mary has lived in sheltered accommodation because of her mobility problem. She has two children, now aged 40 and 45. She sees her 40 year-old daughter regularly, and her son, who lives in another country, keeps in touch by telephone. All Marya��s siblings have passed away, and she is the sole survivor of her extended family. Mary worked as a school teacher for all her adult life. On reflection, Mary thinks she had a happy childhood. She married her late husband when she was 25 years old. Mary found it difficult to juggle the demands of work and looking after her children when they were little. Mary thought she would be content when she retired but she found it difficult to cope because of the lack of contact with other people. As an adult, Mary was seen as an intelligent woman who liked to socialize with a range of people. Mary has a good sense of humour and likes to play practical jokes on her neighbours.


You agree to look after the hamster belonging to the 5 year old daughter of your neighbour,Unfortunately it dies while they are on holiday--- What do you do


( a ) Break the sad news on their return

( b ) Replace the hairy fluff ball But own up to the Death

( c ) Cook it and make a nice curry

( d ) Replace it with a look alike and say nothing

( e ) Or something completely different you decide )


Okay ive got a problem, ive got to get work experience for a week in November and a week in april, I was thinking of going to a nursery or primary school, but last week my neighbour came for a visit and she asked me do I know where I was going for work experience and I said no not yet but I was thinking or primary school or the nursery and she said that shed ask her daughter-the owner of the nursery for me if I want, and isaid yes and then she rang me that night saying her daughter will take me for the work experience.

But today my mum was talking to my old primary school and one of teachers(theres only 2teachers in the school) asked my mum if there was any chance of me doing it back there as she is organising the Christmas play at that time and shes not in great health and would really like the hand.

Do you think it would be rude if I rang the owner of the nursery and ask her could she take me for the week in april as the school want me to help out with the play?

By the way the owner of the nurserys eldest son goes to that primary school and she knows all about the play and the teacher/principal being ill and not in the best of health.


Well i just moved to a new city with my husband and my daughter.My mum's cousin live about 4 mins drive away.Both husband and wife are working and my the grandparents are caring for both kids.Eversince i moved here 3 months ago,my mum's cousin have this idea in her head that i have become her instant free babysitter ,babysitting her kids almost every 2-3 weeks.My cousin will call me up and asked"do u want to take the kids today so they can play with ur daughter" or"can u watch the kids today?i really cant find someone else to watch them"

I told my cousin before i moved here that i was taken advantage of by my old next door neighbour and i was done babysitting other people's kids.Obviously,she doesnt give a rat's ass if she is going to put her kids with me all the time.Her youngest daughter is my daughter's age and my cousin loves sliding in comparison every now and with her daughter,as in her daughter is smarter and better in every ways.
And she loves praising her son,in which case,whenever he is here,he just does not listen and is a devil in disguise in front of his parents.
making a mess everywhere and even broke my ceiling light!boy did that pissed my hubby!

2 days ago,i had to help her take care of her daughter 3 days in a row and the girl slept here for 2 nights,crying every few seconds and getting mad all the time and arguing with my daughter...she cries over me not giving her mouthwash and gum and she is only 4!!and i didnt even give my daughter those because those are not the things the kind of thinsg a parent would give to a toddler!but apparently,her daughter told me her parents let her have them!

My cousin is clearly taking advantage of me and wants me to take her of her kids whenever her in laws are out of town once a month.I was never close to her in the first place!

How the hell do i tell my cousin enough is enough ??


hi i have 3 daughters 9 5 & 6y the two older girls are fine and always have been fine going off to sleep but my 5year old dose all she can from an early age say 3yrs to not stay in bed she used to get out but we overcame this but now she cries and shouts, first it was she needs a drink or wants the toilet we have a set routine of wash hand and faces clean theeth have a drink of water then go to the toilet which sorted tho problems out then she started "the I've got a belly,leg or head ache" I'd tell her she needed to rest and lie quietly and they will pass she accepted this after a little bit but now she started saying she is having nightmares once asleep and is afraid of them even if she has been in bed 5 minutes she will get up and start crying saying she had a nightmare then the moment i say back to bed and I've explained she has nothing to fear and that they are just in her mind the best i can, but i know these are just a way of avoiding going to bed but its the crying and shouting that follows when i put her back to bed its so loud and goes on and on for upto an hour and i worried someone going to get the wrong end of the stick as i don't talk to my neighbours and just keep myself to myself and they are a load a gossips around here i do ignore her but its becoming every night and i'm expecting a new baby in DEC i don't want to add to this by lying in her bed until she drops off as this would end up being every night my other two are really good and just sleep though it but a new baby might be different i just don't know what i can do i cannot and won't sit with her as if i give in this will escalate
i do leave her door open and the hall light is on all night as i'm not keen on totol darkness


I used to live in the flat downstairs, but we moved. When we were displaying our flat to a guy and his daughter they seemed quite normal.

However once we moved upstairs and they moved into our old flat we realized they aren't good neighbours.

We hear him shouting his head off all the time as though having a one-sided argument, and then we hear him throwing things (or people) or else banging things in his flat. We hardly ever hear the daughters response, so we don't know what he's doing out. He shouts things like "Get out of my life!". And he's doing it very loud because we normally can't even hear our neighbours.

The man also appears to be a drunkard.
I saw him walking down the street, he stopped suddenly and shouted out something really loud which sounded a bit like "Paki" but I can't be sure. Except there was no-one else on the whole street.
Then he tried to get into our block of flats but had trouble typing in the code and then fought with the door and stumbled into the bush.

Another time I saw him ringing his own doorbell and swearing about "them" not letting him in, then he proceded to get his key out and try let himself in.

Also there is a guy (daughters boyfriend I presume) who keeps ringing my doorbell to get buzzed in when I'm expecting my mother to come home so I let him in accidently twice into the block. I've told him not to ring my bell and his excuse was that "she doesn't answer".

When the shouting and crashing noises start up from this man, I get really worried.

Should I do an anonymous call to Social Services or should I file a complaint?

I'm both worried about the other people living with the man (although we have only ever seen his wife once, I'm not sure if she lives with them or not). At the same time I am also annoyed, as their behaviour is not good for our very pleasant and well maintained block of flats.


ive recently got a new next door neighbour,seemed nice enough,but hes developed some sort of fascination with me,no mater what time of day i get in or go out hes there,the 2nd i pull into the driveway hes on the door,telling me he wants me asking me random stupid questions like do i fancy another child? even to the point of being crude like saying he cant wear condoms so when im his girlfriend he'l have to fill me up with spunk!!its getting beyond now,im starting to feel uncomfortable coming back to my own house,hes even started asking my daughter if he can date me telling her he wants me,ive not given him any impression whatsoever that im interested so why doesn't he leave me be? in fact im even going as far out of my way as i can to avoid him now its that bad,cant even open my back door for fresh air as he comes knocking on there as well...what the hell am supposed to do? help someone please!!!
ive even recently started having nightmares about it,in my dreams il wlk into a room and hel be there having let himself into my house,im screaming at him to get out leave me be,but he looks at me like im the one whos crazy and in the wrong,i just want this to stop,its so awkward coz obviously i have to live next door to him!!
in answer to a7 unfortunatly no i cant move,ive been trying ever since i got here otherwise i would! it is very uncomfomfortable and yes i do feel a prisoner in my own home,i mean i ve even been gettin up at 5am just to put bin out so i wont have to bump into him


I live in an apartment building in NYC. I recently took a second job to earn more money, I start at 12 am, and then go straight to my regular job at 9am.

When I leave at 12 am, i get a cab and this nosy lady is always standing in the lobby downstairs reading a book, shes about 55. SO the other day I'm running out and stands in front of me and says "my daughter moved to Maine and makes $100,000 a year now" I say "great", then she says "where are u goinf its 12am"?
I didnt answer her and left.

So what should I do next time, just rub out fast without giving her a chance to stop me? I didnt as about her daughter, i guess shes trying to let me know that her daughter is better than me or something, I dont even know her daughter or even her name.
I dont think its any of her business where im going to. Also her husband has never even said hi to me in 15 years, And he wont hold the door for me if im right behind him, if i hold it for him he wont say thanks. and when her daughter lived here she never said hello.
BTW, she has also asked me numerous times "does your daughter live here, i never see her"?

I say yes, she says "BUT I NEVER SEE HER"/ I say she works and goes to school and has a different schedule than you"... The next day she asks my husband the same question.


excuses u have heard or used to get out of somewhere or something!.....

eg... like my next doors neighbours daughter who was only 5 back then was late for school one morning and when her teacher asked why she was late she wrote that her mum had to buy new 'tits!'.....what she meant to say was 'tights!'....lol as they had ripped whilst rushing into the car!...


While all the other normal children finish school then go to college, my foolish daughter has decided "shes not going to do college" as she put it.

She has always been a stubborn woman who talks back & even when she was little (as in 8 years) when I'd go to hit her she'd run into her her room & scream out the window "If you hit me I will report you to the docs & you will go to gaol" so that the neighbours would hear. Shes a brat.

Now she's 17 & has turned her study room into a bloody work shop & she sits for hours making jewellery, & her bloody mother is encouraging her!

shes spending a fortune on pearls, crystals, odd bits & pieces & selling them at markets of a weekend & under her mothers ebay stall & is making $300 per week

Now shes telling me " I'm going to do this full time, not college" - not even asking for my opinions!

I said to her 300 dollars is not much if you have bills to pay & she said If I put in eight hours a day , i'd be making more. I only put in two hours a day at the moment so I have less to sell.

Then she told me its her life & shes going to please herself, not anyone else & the misinformed idiot cut off our conversation just like that.

She's turning into her mother, a free spirit that doesnt conform to societies expectations or normal. Her mother was a ballerina & now she's still dancing, at 40!

Jesus what the hell am I going to tell my friends, I'm to embarrassed to even speak about my own daughter
It doesnt help that my wife never went to college & she earns more than I do a year by dancing!


My step daughter, who has always lived with her mother, East end of town, decided a little while ago that she would like to live with her father, west end of town. He told her she could but one of the conditions was that she would have to start school in our end (grade 9, high school is directly across the street from us). She agreed. She now has decided that she WILL NOT go to this school. She just simply refuses to go. She tells us that she will go to school, just not that one. She wants to go to the school near her moms. This is across town (30 min drive, 45 in the bad weather). She refuses to move back to her moms because they fight a lot and she's not happy there. Part of the problem is that she has always gotten her own way by throwing temper tanturms. Now she is trying this on us and it is not working, nor will it work. She knew the terms when she moved in. But, as well all know, she needs to go to shcool, it's important. We have taken all the "extras" away from her already and she just doens't seem to care (no phone, no tv, no computer, no going out with friends). She still yells, screams and cries every night about how we are ruining her life and we don't care about her etc. We had our neighbours belows us complain becuase she was so loud. Eventually she will end up in court on truancy charges. I don't want to see that happen, but she is really acting like a four year old. Anyone have any ideas on how to handle this, I am at a loss.


My neighbours have been constantly coming round saying my (very child friendly) attacks there young daughter!! 9 out of 10 times he's actually been with me when she comes to the door!! Her husband came round screaming and in my dads face, my dad pushed him away and told him he's a liar!! He called the police!! Now trying to get my dad charged with assault and my mum with keeping a dangerous animal. The police have said that they believe us and in fact love our dog!! These people are blatently lying but there's nothing we can do!! HELP!!
My dogs a staffordshire bull terrier cross!! And most of the time thinks he's a cat! Plus kids are around him all the time! He's the most placid and friendliest dog I know
The thing is, he has escaped in the past and ragged there wee dog. But not for a long long time!! And the police said there were no marks where they'd been *bitten* it's getting out of hand, they're just calling the police consantly and getting us in trouble
There's been no bite or scratch marks found on the "victims". And the dog hasn't been out himself for months anyway


I have been having problems with my neighbours from the day we moved in 6 years ago.
As we were moving boxes in, one of the started shouting at us, Im not sure what she was saying but I thought, okay we have found the local loon, everyone has one and just cracked on.
Since then we have had 3 of our neighbours giving us problems. When my children play out, they take photographs, swear at them and one neighbour came out, jumped over 2 walls and grabbed my wife by the throat. Her own son stopped her from hitting my wife and even he couldn't understand what it was all about.

My older children do not play outside my house, they go off with friends and do other things. Only my youngest so 11 an daughter aged 5 play just outside my house and we can see them from our window an usually sit outside to keep an eye on them as well.
Most of our neighbours are fine and their children play out as well. There is no smoking, drinking, graffiti, drugs, stealing or damage being done, they dont even wear hoodies! It is just kids playing in my front garden or immediately out side my garden.
The neighbour who attacked my wife has a lad of around 12 and he plays out as well. No one ever complains when he is out there.
My children are all in by 8:30pm and do not go out at the weekend until 10am. On sundays we have always had a rule that after tea (5pm), no one goes out to play as they have to get everything ready for school and it gives the street a break!

The kids around here play really nicely. I cant understand what the problem is. We have had the community warden around everyday and he said he had not seen anything bad happening. I asked him if my children had broken any laws and he said no.....so what can I do to stop me neighbours being so anti social? I have tried a few time to talk to them and reason with them but they just swear at me and will not tell me what the problem is.

My wife now wants to move and my children are no longer wanting to go out to play because they are getting shouted at for no reason. I dont want my kids to feel like that and end up stuck on a computer all the time. We do not drive and are not close to any park. The only patch they can play on has a sign saying 'No Ball Games' so the boys cannot play football anywhere.
Any help would be appreciated!


Soo Im an average 13 year old although i am a little popular... all my friends are great and supportive (even the guys) Me and my mom have aloways been super duper close and she was like my best friend. My dad and I were great together but of course we fought like every teen daughter and her father. March 2 2009 i found my mom as i thought passed out in my garage. i called my dad he didnt answer i called my gparents they answerd and they said they would be ther soon. they told me to run over to my neighbour "my moms friend aswell" and get help. i ran over and we called 911 i was in her house waiting to figure out what was wrong with my mom. finally my dad came to the neighbours houses with tears running down his face after tlking to the police. he grabbed onto me and held me. i asked him if she would be alright and he said no. i asked if she will be alive and he said no. i fell to the ground crying. When i found my mom i the gagrage she was laying face down and the garage smelt like gas, my mom had alwasy heard voices in her head and twice tried to commit scuicide. she would see things and people. she would never ever hurt me as i was her only child. she loved me sooooooooooooooo much and i knew it. i love her soooooooo much and she knew it. Now still months have passed by and there isnt a day i want to cry and hink abou her. at her funeral my closets friends wewre there. crying with me. even some of the guys. now my question is... i have a hard time talking to other people about my mom now. and i cry almost everyday, and feel so depressed and i feel as if im holding in my emotions. please just talk to me and help me feel happier.


a�?Korean girl Na-Young brutally raped and beaten-

The truth has to be tolda��



Ia��m about to translate a writing posted on a Korean site called Nate On that left me with so much anger and sadness I cana��t even begin to express how it felt when I finished reading the whole thing. It made me realize Evils really do exist in this world!



This is a true story about an absolutely horrifying incident that happened to a little sweet girl who was just 9 years old. Her name is Na-Young and she was on her way to school when it happened. She was forcefully taken to a public toilet at some building then got brutally beaten, strangled and raped for hours in the most cruel and unimaginable way that can happen to a human being let alone a child.

What shocked me even more was that this evil man was sentenced only 12 years in the jail!!!! The whole nation is going crazy protesting against this unacceptable verdict of the court.



I was also disgusted with this absurd, unfair decision by the court. I cannot go into too much detail about Korean laws and legal matters right now but our country has always been far too forgiving with criminals especially those with sex crimes. And this Na-Younga��s case is a clear example of that.



A number of different postings of Na-Younga��s case are being uploaded on several major Korean websites by the minute but they get erased and deleted by the webmasters. The government is trying to cover up and force silence upon us. It seems that we dona��t even have the rights to speak out anymore. But ita��s about time I do something to change this. No. Ita��s time that we ALL get involved to do something because small changes can make difference!



I cannot just swallow and forget this inhumane crime committed by a 50 something year old monster who completely ruined and destroyed a little innocent girla��s life. Ia��m not doing this just so you can learn what horrible things are going on in Korea, but Ia��m doing this to ask you, and beg you to help us convince our government to tighten Sex crime laws and regulations so that we can protect our children and prevent anything like from happening again.

This will not heal Na-Younga��s physical pain nor will it release her from the nightmares shea��s having every night, but at least shea��ll know that there are people out there who truly wants to help. Please share this posting among your friends and families, let them know whata��s happening around them. Let them know the truth.

This could one day be the story of your frienda��s child, or your neighboura��s, your nephew or a cousine. Or even your own daughters and sons.

And there is no boarder of line between countries when it comes to madness like this.



' Please be aware that what you are about to read is not for the faint- hearted as it contains detailed descriptions of how it happened which may come as shocking and also offend some people. The violence and cruelty that this insane maniac illustrated with this little girl will not leave your mind for a long time, I can assure you.

But I believe the truth has to be told in the right way.

Na-Young deserves to let people know what she went through.

She needs your love and support.'



(Translations)



One morning on her way to school, Na-Young was dragged to a public toilet by a 50 year old strange man. He was under the influence of alcohol at the time of the incident, told by the police department which handled her case.



l Beaten and strangled:

He punched her face and stomach when she refused to take off her clothes. He then strangled her neck to make her pass out but when he didna��t succeed he held her head under the water of toilet seat until she did pass out. It was assumed he did this to make it easy to force himself on her. Up till this point, she was still conscious, said Na-Young when she was asked to describe everything she could remember. It was also confirmed by physical evidences.



l Violently raped and sexually tortured:

When she fell unconscious he held her against the closed toilet seat cover then had penetrative intercourse (anal and vaginal). He then performed the same penetrative pistol action to her right ear. Her head and her ear were crushed against the water tank each time of his pistol action. Her right shoulder was also dislocated as a result.



l Injury of internal oragns and a rupture:

Thinking he had to destroy the evidence by cleaning her inside out of his semen, he pushed her face down in the toilet again to wash her ears. He then used a pump (used for blocked toilets) on her via anus in attempt to extract his semen which lead to severe rupture of her large intestine where he, this time, tried to push the organs back inside her using the long stick of the pump. During this process, he damaged her genital organs comp


The Sun (i know !!!) has unmasked one of the little bastards who tormented Fiona Pilkington to the point where she killed her disabled daughter and herself.
He comes from ''a family from hell nicknamed the untouchables''
He had been reported to the police many times by neighbours and Mrs Pilkington but only received an ASBO (of which I am sure he is very proud) AFTER the deaths of the poor woman and her daughter.

Two questions-----Should he be arrested now and charged with something like being an accessory to murder?

2)Can we not bring back stocks and public birching or at the very least allow cops to give thugs like this a good hiding if there own waste of space parents wont ?
I would go further and jail the kids parents as well.The mum (who it would seem models herself on Vicky Pollard) said after Fionas death '' Fiona is just not right in the head.Its all crap --I think everyone can just shut up (or somefink or nofink)''
I hate to agree with you Art but I do.They should print pictures of everyone in this nasty litle gang and their parents !!


i live on a quiet cul-de-sac and the areas perfect because everything is local, shoppin, takeaway, town centre its all near.
However the neighbours are starting to annoy me and others
i am rentin the house from the council and since they own there house they go around with an arrogant attitude as if they own the street parking infront of peoples drives and speedin
they went down the street WAY over the speed limit almost hittin my kids near by and i asked for them to slow down and i got racist language in return saying to F-off you don't own the street along with other things, i spent months on my garden only for there daughter to destroy all the flowers i spent 6 MONTHS sortin out after i moved in i got so annoyed so i decided to start speedin past there house on my way past and they starting shoutin and swearin sayin i'm tryin to kill there kids and even told the police i was causin trouble and disturbin the peace
what can i do about it its really annoyin me (other than puttin him in hospital)


one poor woman was driven to committing suicide along whith her daughter
because she was driven to it by yobs around her home
the Police failed to help her along with social services
of course her neighbours could not help as they would probably be arrested if they harmed the yobs
gone are the days when you could go out and smack them in the mouth and do some good
the human rights brigade and the do goodies have allot to answer to


My ex-wife and I have been divorced for a year now. We have been married for 8 years and during the last 2 years I put her through hell I admit it, I took advantage of her and emotionally abused her.

I realise now that I was angry at how I couldna��t support my family (I was laid off) and I was directing all my anger to the wrong person - my wife. At the time, she tried really hard to satisfy me. She even worked a second job to pick up on my slack. Yet for some reason I still wasna��t happy, one day when she was out working I cheated on her with a neighbour (due to selfish reasons). She eventually found out about it and was extremely distraught, but she still managed to keep calm. She didna��t want to break up our family (we have a 5 year old daughter together) so she decided that we should go to marriage counselling. Things were starting to get better, I even got a job, and my wife was slowing forgiving me. But the happiness was short lived, I was laid off again and in turn I got angry and put it all on my wife. Finally, my wife got fed up with my behaviour and ended up filing divorce. Ever since she left me, I feel like I have been slowly dieing, without her presence anymore, I am not complete anymore.

What hurts the most is that I dona��t have her anymore. I feel like such a fool for making her life so hard and treating her like crap when she didna��t deserve it. She has always been good to me and in turn I was awful to her. My ex-wife has full custody of our daughter. I have visitations on weekends so I get to see my ex-wife and my daughter, when my ex-wife visits my house she is still so sweet and tries to strike a conversation with me. Ita��s amazing how she doesna��t show resentment. It just makes me realise how perfect she is. I cana��t believe I let her go but I desperately want her back. What scares me a lot is that she can be with another man? She is beyond perfection, I really dona��t want to lose her, how can I get her back?? Please help!!


ive recently got a new next door neighbour,seemed nice enough,but hes developed some sort of fascination with me,no mater what time of day i get in or go out hes there,the 2nd i pull into the driveway hes on the door,telling me he wants me asking me random stupid questions like do i fancy another child? even to the point of being crude like saying he cant wear condoms so when im his girlfriend he'l have to fill me up with spunk!!its getting beyond now,im starting to feel uncomfortable coming back to my own house,hes even started asking my daughter if he can date me telling her he wants me,ive not given him any impression whatsoever that im interested so why doesn't he leave me be? in fact im even going as far out of my way as i can to avoid him now its that bad,cant even open my back door for fresh air as he comes knocking on there as well...what the hell am supposed to do? help someone please!!!