As the Mother of the Bride, you'll be required to play a important role in your dauther's wedding, the wedding reception, and to commit quite some time and emotion in supporting your daughter totally throughout the ... Well over 100 quality (and extremely funny) wedding toasts, jokes, quotes and one-liners that you can sprinkle throughout your speech as you see fit. Precise, step-by-step directions for writing your own top-class speech, from planning to delivery ...Mother-daughter book clubs offer a great way for families to grow and sharea��with each other and with other mother-daughter pairs. In BOOK BY BOOK, Cindy Hudson offers all the how-to tips mothers need to start their own successful book ...Technorati Tags: daughter,chin,chest,Infant,Cloud,article,DAVID,UNZE,DUNZE,STCLOUDTIMES,OCTOBER,degree,Hospital,brain,Thomas,Alan,appearance,complaint,girl,doctors,injury,tongue,fact,history,trauma,quotes,custody,injuries,Officers,instances Note: Cross posted ... West Palm Beach, Florida -- Judge and prosecutor do it right; gang rapists, torturers of mother and child sentenced to life for a hideous crime while defense counsel tries to blame their absent father childhoods ...Several scandals have emerged here over the past few years about groups of players having a�?group sexa�? with individual women (I put it in quotes because whether it is group sex or gang rape is up for question in all cases). .... My daughter is almost 4 and I can't tell you the number of times that mothers of sons have said to me a�?glad that I don't have a daughter and have to deal with all thata�?. Um,a��yes you DO have to deal with it because it might be YOUR son that MY ...I see it as a coming of age story about a 27-year-old who has always lived in the shadow of her star sister and felt secondary in the eyes of her Type A mother. Suddenly, with her sister comatose and the rest of the family unable to act, ... Not my Daughter a�� not to be confused with an earlier book of mine, For My Daughters. This new one, Not My Daughter, tells the story of three high school girls, all good students from good homes, who make a pact to become pregnant. ...Technorati Tags: daughter,chin,chest,Infant,Cloud,article,DAVID,UNZE,DUNZE,STCLOUDTIMES,OCTOBER,degree,Hospital,brain,Thomas,Alan,appearance,complaint,girl,doctors,injury,tongue,fact,history,trauma,quotes,custody,injuries,Officers ...My daughter can light up a room with her smile. She shares with my mother the same charm that, magnetlike, draws people in. They look nothing alike but are both very beautiful-old and young, dark and light. My mother quotes Swinburne, ...daughter quotes for mothers. There's a lot more to being a woman than being a mother, but there's a hell a lot more to being a mother than most people suspect. ( Roseanne Barr) A mother's love is patient and forgiving when all others ...Having four daughters (which other men like to tease my husband about :) he said that if you raise a daughter right you are saving so many people... possibly more than raising a son right (maybe this is what he tells himself to feel better :) ... Very much feeling like a hectic and frayed mother. THe quotes shared here remind me that it's all worth it... every minute. So, thank you again for sharing. Mind if I print a copy to hang up to see daily? ...The most interesting point, I think, is when Susan wonders if she would feel more strongly about being in an office if she was raising girls instead of boys, as if a daughter would interpret her actions differently than a son. ...
What show or movie had the quote "I love you to the moon & Back"? If Im not mistaken I think it was a mother & Daughter who said it to each other. But Im not sure. I will appreciate all you help.
Orale Holmes, I just saw a clip of one WAFA SULTAN, she is from a minority sect of Shia Islam but she doesnt consider herself Muslim. but she still says she is muslim. Shes fights it and lives upon fake Hadiths from the Prophet Muhammad SAW. She states no source and leave no rock unturned in her quest to kill Islam.
She says jews are great..
she needs to know some horrible quotes from Jewish Books.
WHAT ARE YOUR VIEWS ON WAFA SULTAN!?
Is she the daughter of a W[hore]?
or is she the mother of a cunt.. You decide holmes...
I am a middle aged man. My daughter, 10, and former wife would occasionally go to visit my parents house, to visit and cut Mom's hair.
Last time it got ugly with grandpa crossing a line with a little too much affection with my daughter's mother, he also would not let go of her. She also said that my daughter stated, quote"Grandpa was acting funny" When I attempted to contact my Mother via phone, he answered and said "stop being an A#$hole, goodbye" I assume he thinks I told my daughter's mother not too go there any more but it was her decision. I do feel bad for my mother, but codependency and denial is rampant in that house; I don't know what to do.
I am tired of the old mans behavior,smoking indoors, drinking to excess, age-innapropriate references; he has been difficult for years, and my daughter's well being is my main priority as a parent.
welcome to the Halloween horror show. this is the time of year when mothers across America get another chance to rant about the culture that pushes daughters directly from "Barney to Jail bait"
My mom is going through a really hard time right now. I want to make her something full of quotes. They just need to be uplifting, positive quotes. They can be about life, a daughter loving her mother, bible verses, staying positive and strong. Thanks for any help!! :]
Movie is a few years old and it's about a girl that has evil powers to make baaad things happen. I don't remember any details except I think they live in the woods, and the mother tries to kill the daughter so as to prevent evil from occurring. In the preview there was a quote along the lines "you don't want to hurt your own daughter!" and the mother replies "why not?" Please help. It's driving me insane and I can't find anything online about it just other movies with evil girls in it.
I thought liberals were so very much separation of church and state!
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TEX-A Just put this up: Why Do So Many Cons Get Uncomfortable When I Quote Jesus Christ?
Conservative Pharisees crucified Jesus over things like this. Today's conservatives STILL hate Jesus Christ and everything He taught.
Why is that?
Matthew 19:23-30
And Jesus said to his disciples, "Truly, I say to you, it will be hard for a rich man to enter the kingdom of heaven. Again I tell you, it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God." And every one who has left houses or brothers or sisters or father or mother or children or lands, for my name's sake, will receive a hundredfold, and inherit eternal life. But many that are first will be last, and the last first.
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I bet he/she didn't read further down!: Mathew 10:34 a�?Do not think that I came to bring peace on the earth; I did not come to bring peace, but a sword. 35 a�?For I came to SET A MAN AGAINST HIS FATHER, AND A DAUGHTER AGAINST HER MOTHER, AND A DAUGHTER-IN-LAW AGAINST HER MOTHER-IN-LAW; 36 and A MANa��S ENEMIES WILL BE THE MEMBERS OF HIS HOUSEHOLD.
If you want to call Jesus a Jihadist, It is not in the bible. But if you want to use that analogy, then it would not be against man, it would be against sin.
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How do see these scriptures?
Joel 2:28; Acts 2:17 both say "your sons and daughters will prophesy".
Acts 18: 18,19, 24-28. Priscilla was a Christian sister who was on missionary tour with Paul. In verse 24 it shows that Apollos was a man well versed in the scriptures but did not know the things about Jesus. Verse 26 says, "When Priscilla and Aquila heard him, they took him into their company and expounded the way of God more correctly to him."
Also note that the mother of Jesus was one of the first to receive holy spirit at Pentecost. Acts chapter 1 and 2. It was during the the day of the festival of Pentecost when the holy spirit acted on men and women to speak in tongues. They spoke the language of different people so they could tell the good news to many more than just Hebrews.
Psalms 68:11, "Jehovah himself gives the saying; The women telling the good news are a large army."
Romans 16: 1-6 calls women "a defender of many", "fellow workers in Christ Jesus".
John 4: 25-30 mentions the woman at the well went back to her city to tell men she had found the Messiah.
The scriptures you quote are speaking about women not teaching in the congregation because that is a God given role for men. It also mentions that a head covering would be required for women to wear if they need to teach in the congregation maybe due to a lack of qualified males.
I am not trying to start a fight, I just am interested in how your religion incorporates these scriptures?
Some people say that marrying more than one wife is not allowed unless a person has orphans under his care and he fears that he will not do justice between them. Then he may marry their mother or one of her daughters. For evidence, they quote the verse:
{And if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with the orphan-girls, then marry women of your choice, two, three or four...}, [Soorah an-Nisaa., Aayah 3).
Response: This statement is false.
The meaning of the verse is that if a person has under his care an orphan and he fears that he will not give her the proper amount of dower, then he should marry other women, for there are many women and Allaah will not make things difficult for him. The verse points to the legality of marrying two, three or four wives. This is allowed because it leads to more chastity, lowering of eyesight and guarding of the private parts.
Furthermore, that is a cause for more children and the chastity of more women, as well as them being treated properly and cared for. There is no doubt that the woman who has one-half of a husband or one-third or one-fourth is better off than the one who has no husband at all. However, one must meet the condition of justice among the wives and the ability to take care of and tend to the wives. If a person fears that he will not do justice, then he may only many one wife in addition to having slaves. The practice of the Prophet (sal-Allaahu `alayhe wa sallam) indicates and stresses that. When he died, he had nine wives. And Allaah says about him:
{Indeed in the Messenger of Allaah you have a good example to follow}, [Soorah al-Ahzaab, Aayah 21].
The Prophet (sal-Allaahu `alayhe wa sallam) made it clear to his Nation that it was allowed for him to have more than four wives. Therefore, following his example on this point would mean taking four wives or less. Beyond four wives is something that is specific for the Prophet (sal-Allaahu `alayhe wa sallam) only.
My beautiful dear mother died two weeks ago unexpectedly. I would love to get a tattoo to honor her because we had a very special mother-daughter relationship. I plan to put the quote on the back of my shoulder - so the shorter the quote is, the better.
A quote I like so far is "Mourn not the cocoon, the butterfly has flown." I like quotes that do not directly say "I miss you, I love you." I like quotes that seem abstract and use other words to describe "general" words.
Thank you all in advance.
Shooting Kinesha
a�?I hate what I come from,a�? says my cousin Shoshana,
22, jawing per always, feather earrings tangling
in her light brown hair. Shoshana hangs on to Kinesha,
her kid, to stop her running off. Our cousin Deba��s
wedding just got out; wea��re standing at the bottom
of the wedding hall steps. a�?White people
dona��t have culture, except what they stole
from our African brothers.a�? Shoshanaa��s
wearing black, per always, me too, her in leather,
me in acetate-velour. a�?Weddings, U-G-H.a�?
Shoshana spells out ugh like ita��s spelled
in books. a�?I hope yours was cooler than this.a�?
I nod. I always nod at Shoshana, whatever she says.
Shoshana checks, rechecks her watch, watching
for her boyfriend. Ia��m waiting for my husband too.
Ia��ve been a pain in the ass to him all morning.
Shoshana sips cheap California champagne
to hide her upset feelings. Kinesha breaks loose,
veers close to the street and parked cars and traffic,
thrashes her lace anklets and buckle shoes
into a crowd of part-white pigeons.
a�?In London I only hung out with Jamaicans,a�?
Shoshana says. a�?People gave me looks on the bus.
Ouch.a�? She detangles an earring. a�?Once I ripped
an earlobe on these. Anyway, I want you to meet
my boyfriend. Hea��s cool, hea��s sticking by me.
He says he knew he could when I wouldna��t
dime him out after they caught me with his pot
in the Kingston airport. Kineshaa��s his. Hea��s
the only guy Ia��ve loved since, you know, Ken?a�?
Kena��s the one who died beside her
of an overdose in the Motel 6 in Ohio
the time she was 16 and stole her dada��s Beamer
to run away. a�?You heard?a�? Of course I did,
in this family. a�?Kineshaa��s Kinesha
to remember him,a�? she says. a�?I still miss him.a�?
I nod. I poke Kineshaa��s belly, her nose.
a�?U-G-H,a�? says Kinesha, annoyed. Ia��m bad with kids.
a�?Ia��m teaching her to assert herself,a�? Shoshana says.
Her wrist-chains jangle. I twist my wedding ring.
An organ somewhere plays a�?Ode to Joy.a�?
Here comes the third bad cousin, Christina,
scruff-haired in the pale-pink prom dress
the bride her sister made her wear. $90,000
per year doing something with websites and she
cana��t even keep her hair in order. a�?Isna��t it awful?a�?
Christina says, a�?What do I look like, Gwyneth Paltrow?
You guys look swell.a�? Shea��s good with kids:
Kinesha slams herself for a hug into Christinaa��s
legs. Christina and Kinesha kiss. She says
a�?Did you like my PowerPoint presentation
on the bridea��s life? Did you think it was funny?
Go play with the pigeons.a�? She puts Kinesha down.
a�?Deb wanted a poem, but dona��t you hate poems?
Was it wrong of me to start with an Eminem quote?a�?
Kinesha shouts, staggers, stamps at the pigeons;
jaded, they hardly move, only jump-start
halfhearted when Kinesha brandishes
her one-armed naked Barbie above her head,
then turns Barbie into a gun, shoots
at the pigeons. a�?I feel like we should be
sneaking around back with cigarettes
like we used to, remember?a�? says Christina.
a�?Too bad we dona��t smoke anymore.a�?
Shoshana takes out her Newports, lights up.
Ia��m remembering we never much liked each other,
only hung together at family gatherings
because we were supposed to be the bad ones.
I hate what I come from. I say a�?My father
just told me again my poems are a�?too full
of disgusting sex.a�� He said a�?Why dona��t you
write more like Derek Walcott?a�� Ia��m sick
of him throwing deep-thinking
genius men up at me.a�? Christina rolls
her eyes, shakes her head, fudges hair tendrils
back into her frizzy twisted updo, vibrates
her lips, blows air out. a�?Can you tell Ia��m
drunk already?a�? she asks. I nod. She shrugs.
a�?Well, why not, Deb didna��t invite single guysa�?
for me like I asked her. Selfish as always.a�?
Shoshana checks her watch. a�?Ia��m gonna kill him.a�?
I wish I wanted to kill my husband.
Right now, I hate everything, everybody,
and dona��t have a friend in the world
except my husband. Ita��s true he dislikes me
more and more these days but at least
he likes my poems and hates Derek Walcott.
Kinesha sprays Barbie bullets at everything,
Barbiea��s head as bald as her elided crotch.
a�?I didna��t buy her that racist, sexist doll,a�?
says Shoshana. Christina and I nod.
a�?She found my old one. I pulled
all her hair out when I was 14
and shaved my head the first time.a�?
Kinesha moves away from the settling pigeons,
turns her Barbie gun on us, shoots.
Rat-a-tat-tat. a�?Ugh, you got me,a�?
we say, and a�?BANG!a�? I say. We turn
our hands into guns, three bad cousins,
Mother, Bridesmaid, Wife-and-Daughter,
for all our different reasons, shooting the child.
I am getting a tattoo for my baby girl. I am looking for a quote to go along with her footprint or birth month flower. I can't seem to find any good mother-daughter quotes so maybe just one about love? She is my world, and I want a quote that says that....but not exactly that! Any ideas on quotes??
Oh...I'm on my husband's account, so nevermind the name!
My beautiful dear mother died last week suddenly and unexpectedly. I would love to get a tattoo to honor her because we had a very special mother-daughter relationship. I plan to put the quote on the back of my shoulder so the shorter the quote is the better.
A quote I like so far is "Mourn not the cocoon, the butterfly has flown." I like quotes that do not directly say "I miss you, I love you." I like quotes that seem abstract and use other words to describe "general" words.
Thank you all in advance.
I already have a tattoo of a lotus flower on my hip and my mom loved it. She had a tattoo of a heart on her back. So the idea of getting another tattoo wouldn't make her feel appalled.
And yes my plan is to have it done in a nice cursive font and only in black. The simpler the better.
Any quote suggestions?
My 6 year old step son (he, his mother, my three year old daughter and myself all live together) goes to an elementary school no more than 3 blocks away. We thought we love the school, the staff is great, the atmosphere is great, and we are both very active in his activities there, have been for a couple years now. Even I, myself am very familiar with all the staff he interacts with daily.
However, yesterday his mother was pulled aside by a detective just after picking him up from school to ask her some questions. He had her get in his car and leave her son with someone for a few moments. He began to run down the scenario he was currently dealing with.....
He had just came from questioning her son prior to her picking him up because apparently, last week when he got a "yellow" which is the way our school deals with misbehavior (green, yellow, red), he quote "told the teacher he was afraid to go home because he had gotten in trouble". This had nothing to do with marks on his body, or him directly claiming abuse by a specific parent, just simply scared to home because he went to the yellow. Every time he "goes to the yellow" though, he's very open with me about it. Often times when I pick him up from school and ask how his day was he'll say right away, "it was bad".
When I ask him why it was bad he'll say it's 'cause he went to yellow and will proceed to very openly tell me about why it happened and what he did to bring it on, i.e. talking in class, not paying attention etc.. The most I'll EVER do is have a talk with him about what it is he could've done right and so on, what big boys should do in that situation and so on.. First of all, in our household I implement NO punishments for him what-so-ever. I'll lecture, use a firm tone or discipline him verbally when necessary on right from wrong but if it comes to a point where punishment is necessary I'll bring it to his mother's attention immediately, if she isn't already aware. And she uses time-out only....
So yesterday, this detective made it clear to her when going through the appropriate questioning, that when he interviewed her son he uses a method of questioning for children that helps him tell whether he's being abused, making stuff up or not etc.. He told her it was clear that he was doing make believe and that he also conveyed this to whatever staff had been involved at the school.
However, he said a social worker will still be calling her and coming to our home to investigate. I have a three year old daughter who I took full custody of a few years back, and her bio-mother chooses to be in her life rarely, if that. So, she knows my girlfriend as "mommy" and she's all she's known for 2 years now. My imagination is running wild now, especially because her son is prone to making stuff up. Just last year we received emails from his Kindergarten teacher because he had been quote "saying he was going to stab a little girl's eyes out". This scared us to death, to the point where we put all kitchen and butter knives up so high in cabinets that even WE could barely reach 'em. But when we went to have a conference with her about it, she said it wasn't actually by himself, that there was a group of boys saying that. So I don't know....
The detective assured her that there was no problem here and that's how he was going to be reporting it. He did not make her sign anything and from what she said he seemed very genuine when he told her there's no case here.
We don't know what to do though, can anyone tell us how we should follow-up? We live in NE. We're still both scared to death as NOTHING like this has EVER happened to us before.....
My beautiful dear mother died last week suddenly and unexpectedly. I would love to get a tattoo to honor her because we had a very special mother-daughter relationship. I plan to put the quote on the back of my shoulder so the shorter the quote is the better.
Few quotes that I like:
- Although death has separated us physically: faith and love have bound us eternally.
- Always in my heart.
- When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure.
- For some moments in life there are no words.
These quotes are what I like, but I have not found something that really stands out. I also like lyrics so if you have any in mind I would like to read them.
Thanks in advance for all your help!
Ok, so my father is from North Africa and has been Muslim his entire life. However, I was raised in America with my younger brother, and my mother is an agnostic. So, my parents divorced around 3 years ago and I moved with my mother and brother into a seperate household from my father. My mother decided she wanted to handle child support outside of court, so basically my parents never settled a child support agreement inside of a courthouse. Anyways, today I am 18 years old and have been for some months now, and Im a college student. I still live with my mom because college living is too expensive and I don't have a job. So one day I had this guy I like stay the night with me, my mom said it was cool now that I'm 18 almost 19. The next morning my dad comes over I can hear him screaming and yelling in the living room, I get up to see whats going on and my mom tells me that my dad is freaking out because he saw a bike outside in the front yard. He yells at me and demands for me to unlock the door so he can see inside my room, I tell him no way (the guys still in there). He starts banging on my door threatening to break it down if he has to. All the while he's bouncing from destroying my door, to walking into the living room where me and my mom are standing calling her a bitch, and worthless piece of shit. Then he directs his anger towards me and starts calling me a whore, bitch, c**t, slut, a drug-addict (that one kind of made me giggle a little cuz I dont even drink alcohol). Finally I get him to leave by mentioning that the front door has been open the entire time, and our next door neighboors are sitting out there with a phone in there hands. I am still slightly horrified by what happened, and now that I have explained the situation I would like some outside advice. I just wanna know if anyone else thinks this is a little odd. I mean im not sure if his problem is that he wants me to be muslim, or if its just him being a concerned father. Some of my friends insult me sometimes because they say in quote, "he seems more like a jealous lover than an overprotective father," and I know what their trying to hint by that but my dad was physically and emotionally abusive but never sexually. So I want a second opinion. Is my father in need of pshyciatric help, or is he justified in his anger? Is this how any normal father who loves his daughter would react, or is there something more menacing about his motives?
I asked this question earlier without quoting the passage and got answers saying only muslims do this. How should I interpret this section of the bible? The word deuteronomy transliterates to "secondary laws" in Greek, does that mean that we are to kill people in special circumstances.
Deuteronomy 13
6 If thy brother, the son of thy mother, or thy son, or thy daughter, or thy wife of thy bosom, or thy friend, which is as thine own soul, entice thee secretly, saying, Let us go and serve other gods, which thou hast not known, thou, nor thy fathers.
7 Namely, of the gods of the people which are round about you, nigh unto thee, or far from thee, from the one end of the earth even unto the other end of the earth;
8 Thou shalt not consent unto him, nor hearken unto him; neither shall thine eye pity him, neither shalt thou spare, neither shalt thou conceal him:
9 But thou shalt surely kill him; thine hand shall be first upon him to put him to death, and afterwards the hand of all people.
10 And thou shalt stone him with stones, that he die; because he hath sought to to thrust thee away from he Lord thy God...
I'm doing a gothic horror poster for an english story. My plot line is something cliche about a mother who's trying to kill her daughter. I was going to use the phrase "Until death do us part" as the title, but thought this sounded a little like the mother and daughter where married...
So, I need a title. I was thinking a play on a well-known motherly phrase, something a lot of people say about mums... Or I don't know, just a good title?
Thanks in advance
x
Hi, i am writing an essay on pride and prejudice and forgot to cite my quotes... so im freaking out a little...
i was wondering if anyone knows where in the book these quotes appear (aka the chapter)
thank you thank you thank youuuu
"Her father, captivated by youth and beauty, and that appearance of good humour which youth and beauty generally give, had married a woman whose weak understanding and illiberal mind had very early in their marriage put an end to all real affection for her. Respect, esteem, and confidence had vanished for ever; and all his views of domestic happiness were overthrown"
a�?A lady's imagination is very rapid; it jumps from admiration to love, from love to matrimony, in a moment,a�?
"Mrs. Bennet had seen her eldest daughter much admired by the Netherfield party. Mr. Bingley had danced with her twice, and she had been distinguished by his sisters. Jane was as much gratified by this as her mother could be, though in a quieter way. Elizabeth felt Jane's pleasure,a�?
THANKS!!!
What was her contribution in service of Islam that makes her derserve the leadership of all Young women in Jannah?
I don't mean to question nor criticize her role. I am merely asking to know because I have never read much about Fatima RA except that she was younget daughter of Prophet Mohammad SAW, she was married in young age with Hazrat Ali RA, was mother of Hassan and Hussain - too great leaders in Muslim Ummah, and died six months after Prophet SAW died.
I don't believe Allah has granted hereditory leadership in Islam that can make Fatima RA
leader of all women of Jannah being the daughter of Prophet Mohammad SAW.
If there is any statement of Prophet Mohammad SAW that Fatimah will be the leader of all women in Jannah, please quote an authentic Hadith from Bukhari or Muslim.
Wasn't the role of Ummul Momineen Khadijah RA of higher level than Fatimah RA being the first Muslimah and believer on Mohammad SAW as Prophet of Allah and that she gave all her wealth at disposal of her husband Mohammad SAW to help orphans, widows and poor people. She had nothing left when she died at age 65. Please put some light on the role of both ladies of Islam.
Every one has praised Fatimah RA in their answers but no one has answered my question. I want to know what makes Fatimah's level higher than Khadijah RA, what are her contributions to Islam to deserve top positiob in highest level of Jannah?
Some Shias often accuse that Ameerul
Monineen Omar bin Khattab caused death of Fatimah RA.
I wonder if that was true, why Hazrat Ali RA married his daugher Ume Kalthoom with Omar bin Khattab? I don't know if Fatimah RA was alive at the time of her daughter's marriage or marriage happend after her death.
I also wonder if Omar and Abu Bakar were so bad and against the interest of Hazrat Ali & Fatimah RA, why Hassan and Hussain named his sons Abu Bakar, Omar, Othman and Ali?
For Pedram,
If your argument is the best creteria for the leadership of Jannah, then
Bibi Hawa RA, deserves the leadership of Jannah because amongst her great grand children, there were 25 Rasools and 124,000 Prophets of Allah.
My neighbor across the street is an extremely ignorant and viscous woman who has been using her kids to start drama on my street. The two little girls that live in my 3 family home ( one is 8 and the other 6) have been bullied by this woman's children calling them disgusting language. I quote my evil neighbor " If that girl gives you any crap I'll stuff that b**** "-this was a comment she was making to her younger daughter toward my 8 year old neighbor. My other neighbor has called DSS on this woman but they claim nothing can be done unless we have some sort of proof she is abusive,ext. I witnessed her son and daughter throwing stones at are house and my 6 year old neighbor the other day. Of course we have tried calling the cops and telling them off but I want this woman GONE, far far away from my street. She is corrupting all the neighborhood kids with her foul mouth and threats and she is in no condition to be a mother. What can I do??? Thanks-Jaime
My daughter, Hayden, just started kindergarten in August. She has had weird thoughts ever since involving body parts. I expected this behavior once she got to be 9-10 and developed pubic hair, and breast buds. But at 5-6 years old, i never would have guessed..
On Friday after i picked her up from school she told me in a funny manor that at school she had a funny thought of all her classmates, her teacher, and me (her mother) pulling our pants down and shaking out butts. She laughed because she thought it was funny, and i just ignored it.
But today she had a sore throat at school, and i went to pick her up early. She feels okay now, but since i had to work until 2:00pm, i took her over to my mom's house. My mother asked my daughter, Hayden, if there was anything she could do to make Hay feel better. Hayden replied, and i quote, "You can rub my pee pee for me". At first my mom didn't know what Hayden meant, so she asked Hayden if Hayden was referring to the need to pee. Hayden replied, "No you can stroke my pee area". My mom was confused, and so she put Hay down for a nap.
When i came to pick up my daughter, she was still asleep. My mom took me to the side, and asked me if Hayden had ever been sexually abused or touched by a peer, an adult, me, or my husband. I replied 'NO!" i mean, seriously, why would her parents do that to her?!!? My mom believed me, because she knows my husband and i well, and she knows we would NEVER EVER do that. After having some tea with my mom, i decided to go get Hayden to leave. When i opened the door of the guest room, Hayden was there on the bed, her pants pulled down, MASTURBATING. Even when she saw me, she didn't stop doing it. She even asked me if i would rub it for her. I was just in shock i couldn't say anything, so she continued, and let out a huge groan a few seconds later, and told me it felt like she was "so alive".
This only started since she started school. Her teacher said she's going fine..is this behavior normal?
P.s.
I don't have wireless at my home computer, (only my office), so i am using my 20 year old niece's account in case you were wondering, because i am at my sister's house right now. (Hayden is at home with her dad right now)
Sorry, i forgot to say that Hayden always asks for a pee pee rub before bed, we never knew what that meant, my husband and I, so we thought she meant she needed to go to the bathroom. When i asked Hayden what she was doing at nana's house in the guest room, she told me she was "playing" with her pee pee because it "feels good"
a�?Sacrifice, you made one. I made one. We all make them. But you are angry over yours. You kept thinking about what you losta�� You didna��t get it. Sacrifice is a part of life. Ita��s supposed to be. Ita��s not something you regret. Ita��s something to aspire to. Little sacrifices. Big sacrifices. A mother works so her son can go to school. A daughter moves home to care of her sick father.a�?
My friend's mother is suing my old private high school for slander due to a long series of stupid dramafests. She wants me to make a statement as a witness to the slander (I really was a witness. There were very ugly words said about the family and my friend in particular directly in front of me by the dean, 2 teachers, and a few students.)
However, Im no longer in that city and am currently in college 3 hours away. I won't be able to miss classes repeatedly to do various statements and whatnot. So do I have to be in person in a court room to give my statement or can I just tell it to the lawyer over the phone and he just quote me? Would it only be a one time thing or would it be recurring, as in me having to go back and forth to court/law offices more than once?
Also, is it any way I can make a statement anonymously? I really don't want my name in it because the dean's daughter is my age and all her friends are very catty and would start a bunch of BS drama because even thought she's 18 she acts 13.
I am going to be painting a picture frame for a friend's daughter's first birthday and wanted to make something she would appreciate when she was older. Thanks in advance.
I really want to send my son (and possibly daughter too) a message this time in a song. He has trouble listening otherwise (ADHD, etc.). My Mom has had legal guardianship over him since he was 3 years old. I have two mental challenges and their father
was an alcoholic. The two of use fought almost 24/7 and we lost them.
Long story short: I was invited to go to Santa Cruz with my family with my Mom, my sister, her boyfriend, their new baby, my sister's daughter, my 16 year old son, my 15 year old daughter, and a friend of theirs (male).
Well, I didn't have enough money to pay for my room and it ended up being a disaster. I told my son I was going to cash a check at home - and would be back in a couple of hours - but didn't actually get back until late that night. My boyfriend - who I've been with for the past 2 years is passive aggressive and drinks and he made things very hard on me and started playing a lot of head games with me and was picking fights. All the while I was fighting to find the check (which never to this day showed up but his Mom had been calling frantically saying his aunt who is 97 yrs old and apparently as sharp as a tack, and she had been calling daily - saying to call
back and let her know if we received this check). So since we were all the way up in Santa Cruz with no way of paying for the room - I decided to jam home quickly and pick up this check - which must have had significant value with all the hysterics his Mother was making - leaving messages on the phone for days, and cash it and come back to the motel to pay them and finish having a nice vacation with my family and kids. Well, no check
ever arrived, my boyfriend kept drinking, I was worried sick because of my promise to my kids - who were with my Mom and sister - who just got a huge insurance settlement and were able to go on vacation because of it and never offered to help me at all. I was embarrased to ask for help. I don't think I've ever received financial help from them ever. I've always been the one to bring everyone laptop computers, clothes, buy everyone dinners, etc., through the years. I felt really awkward and didn't really understand the significance behind this
vacation. I had a previous husband pass away from cancer
who was an extremely kind and caring man who actually raised my self esteem and helped me in life. But living with this passive aggressive person feels as if he's breaking me down every minute of every day emotionally - and I can't figure out if it's me still. It's very weird and hard to explain. It's like I'm going crazy. Is this possible? I can hear the cries of people who love me (sort of) in the background and I think my son may
have sent me this song... but I'm not sure if it was intended for me, and I'm too beaten down and emotionally traumatized to ask him, although I wouldn't get a straight answer. I'm not just traumatized from my boyfriend though.
I have always felt emotionally abused for many many years from others (not mentioning names and not excluding family members) too and then in 2006, the death of my husband who I felt was respectful and kind - caused me to lose major self esteem, and my Mother and sister never (at least not in front of me) encouraged my kids to be nice to me and my kids always gave me the cold shoulder and literally have not talked with or to me for maybe 10 years or more - no matter what I've done or given, or no matter how much I've been there, etc.
Now, after all these years, I feel like I'm finally breaking - and it feels like now maybe they're needing me more or something (I'm not sure, it's weird)... and at a time when I'm my weakest... and I almost feel as if I'm dying. I want most of all for them to be taken care of course and for the ability to take care of them, but I think I also would really like them to at least know how much I was there and for them to know they've been brainwashed. I'll probably get blasted for writing this a�� someone will find it somehow and I'll be the outcast for another 6 months or a year.
I want their forgiveness and to enjoy the (ANY) time I am now able to spend with them, and to stop thinking I'm this great big enemy that's out to destroy them or something. It's always been like I'm this monster (this is the way I think I was described).
Anyway, I have a quote on my wall that says, "Dear God, when they accuse me falsely, help them see the innocence in me. And when I judge, Lord, help me see the innocence in them. Amen." This is the song my son published last night... a�?Kanye West a�� Heartless.a�? and I have this Mother's intuition still inside me that it was intended for me, so just in case it was meant for me, can anyone help me find a song in reply about - a Misunderstanding and Love for my son and/or son and daughter?
#1 - I have emailed them about 7 times. #2 - I'm not only not coming around because of my boyfriend. I'm also not coming around because it's so miserable getting the cold shoulder from them every time I'm around, being told what to do, when to leave, how to behave, that I'm not "listening", and being judged the entire time. I get lectured and harrassed the entire time I'm there and its not peaceful to say the least. I hate my boyfriend and I'm trying to find a way out. Its easier said than done. He's scary and he's actually put me in jail when I didn't do anything, he's so abusive. He was afraid, so he called the police before I did and put me in a position that made me look like I was the perpertrator. He's scary, covert, full of repressed anger, has no conscience, and I'd be afraid of something happening to me or my kids if I just up and left, and he'd destroy my things (I practically have nothing left from all the things he's already destroyed from either drinking or anger).
OK, first let me say I never thought I would be writing in one of these, so please people be kind, I'm only looking for honest help. I know I'm screwed up I don't need you to tell me, but I can't afford therapy!
My 'Husband' and I have been together for 6 years now. The reason I am quoting the word 'husband' is because we have never actually gotten married - for many reasons which I am going to go into detail about. Though we lacked the piece of paper; up until a year ago I was proud to call him hubby and just figured the actual wedding day would come in due time.
First the stupid reasons we are not already married a�� which I think was my sub-conscious excuses to hold off on the I-doa��s. HIS MOTHER!!! Every time a date was set there was some totally STUPID reason we could not get married on that day; so and so died that day, so and so did this and that on that day; OH AND MY FAVORITE: a�?We can have a�?daughtersa�� B-day party at the same time. (His daughter, not mine)! I finally said F* it and the dress and all wedding supplies have been stacked in the closet since.
BUT my hesitance has proved (to me anyway) to be a good thing. During a friendly card game a year ago the a�?marriagea�� conversation came up and for some unknown reason I reflected on his STUPID YES STUPID proposal. He was very nervous and ring less and it took him nearly an hour of rambling for me to even figure out where the stupid conversation was going a�� so finally I asked where he was going with all his rambling; his reply a�?well I thought we should get married what do you think?a�?OK Ia��MA FOOL a�� I actually found this whole ordeal quite endearing!
So anyway; during this card game I reflected on this a�?speciala�� moment in my life; and told him how much it had meant to me only to be told a�?I dona��t remember.a�? HOW IN THE HECK dona��t you remember something like this??? It hurt so bad a�� still does. I feel like such a FOOL. I think it must have been FAKE, a PUT ON, him doing the right thing because I had just moved in and his MOTHER did not approve!
Since then our relationship has been very rocky. Every little thing gets me going and back to this issue and some of the other stupid things he has said and done. About 8 months ago I could no longer stand to wear the engagement ring a�� WHICH BY THE WAY I PICKED OUT MYSELF! a�� so I put it back in the box with its mate. This does not seem to bother him in the least.
OK, now this gets better a�� a month or so ago I found out that he has been looking at porn on the internet (he spends a lot of time away from home so it was not unexpected). This actually did not bother me, due to his job he is gone a lot and I to have resorted to porn for satisfaction at times myself. Most of you ladies out there are probably going to think Ia��m out of my mind but I was actually quite turned on by this! So (in hopes of improving an already pretty darn good sex life) I asked what kind of porn, what web sites, etc. He was seeming to embarrassed to talk about this even though I told him it aroused me!
So, I finally could no longer stand wondering so I logged onto his computer to check it out. Well I found a few different sites nothing hard core or having to do with minors or just plain weird! THANK GOD! But what I stumbled across next made my head (and heart) spin! He looked up a strip club in another city while he was in that city! So I confronted him about it (because thata��s how I am). He claims he did NOT go just wanted to see if it was still in business a�� yes this implies he has been there before.
More background: His ex-wife was/is a stripper, thata��s how he met her. He used to spend a lot of time in strip clubs. Supposedly he put all this behind him before we met and is now a devoted husband and father.
Naturally, I dona��t believe him! If he is so a�?devoteda�� why would he even CARE if some strip club is still open or not? Even if he is telling the truth and did NOT go; does looking it up somehow imply he would like to go or that he considered it? I have looked up a lot of downright STUPID stuff on the internet but not strip clubs!
My trust is gone, my self esteem in the toilet, I feel very weird just being around him, and thinking about having sex quickly turns into a debate. I have no drive to have sex with him at all right now, I just lay there wondering about all this stuff and I cannot focus on it and enjoying it. I have considered a�?divorcea�� but; 1 that like quitting, I dona��t quit; 2 we have children; 3 its just plain messy. Who gets what?
God says to forgive; but I keep asking myself HOW to forgive him for so much? Ia��m certain I have said and done things to scaled him too, but I have asked many times if there are things I need to do different, or things I do that really bother him a�� he has yet to give me a real answer, he just says no. There is no way that I have never said or done something that was hurtful, or that he did not like, therea��s just no way. But I cana��t even attempt to make changes without in
as well as this quote :
a�?He uncovered his second wifea��s dish and began to eat from it. Obiageli took the first dish and returned to her mothera��s hut. And then Nkechi came in, bringing the third dish. Nkechi was the daughter of Okonkwoa��s third wife.a�?
"It was the justice of the earth goddess (...) They had no hatred in their hearts against Okonkwo (...) if the clan did not exact punishment for an offense against the great goddess, her wrath was loosed on all the land and not just on the offender"
my 10 month old daughter has a fever of 102 (only goes down a degree or 2 w/ tylenol) she has a viral rash on her forehead and belly/chest/sides.
i brought her to the doctors yesterday. she didnt get to see her real doctor, instead, she saw a different physician in the same practice. well, she hated him...he kept man-handling her, and he just wasnt very nice at all. he kept treating me like i was a first time mother....
i told him about the fevers, he said - and i quote - "well, there is nothing u can do about that, keep giving her tylenol every 4 hours and see what happens. dont be surprised if the fever spikes to 103 or 104 over the next couple of days. oh yeah, and, 4% of kids have a fever that is accompanied by convulsions. if she has convulsions, its nothing to worry about and nothing u can do about it."
i brought the rash to his attention, and he said that wasnt enough to convince him of anything
so i said okay...so my child is going to have a fever and be miserable for a while and theres nothing i can do about it...and she may even spike to 103 and 104 and thats "normal" and she may even convulse and all i can do is sit there and watch!?!
omg
i want another opinion, but cant get a ride to the doctor again until thursday or friday...
omg!! what would u do if ur childs dr. told u this?
what should i do?!?
i feel like i have to bring her to see HER DOCTOR today...but i have no ride...
i cant get a cab over there becuz it is like 2 towns over and that would be like $100, oh yeh, and im broke, and the hubby brought the debit card with him to work for gas...
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The Word House (Ahlul-Bayt) in Quran
House of Abraham (AS)
Quran testifies that Sarah, the wife of Prophet Abraham (AS), was blessed by angels and was given the glad tiding that she will give birth to two prophets of God:
11:71
And his wife, standing by, laughed when We gave her good tidings (of the birth) of Isaac, and, after Isaac, of Jacob.
11:72
She said: "Alas for me! Shall I bear a child when I am an old woman and my husband now is an old man? That would indeed be a strange thing!"
11:73
The (angles) said: Do You wonder at Allah's decree? The grace of Allah and His blessings be upon you, O People of the House! He is indeed worthy of all praise full of all glory!"
Since in the mercy and the bounty of God offered in the above verse to the People of the House of Abraham, it has been a tendency of some Sunni commentators and their anxiety to find some argument for their counting the wives of the Holy Prophet (PBUH&HF) in the terms Ahlul-Bayt. They argue that since Sarah the wife of Abraham is included in the term Ahlul-Bayt mentioned in the above verse, then all the wives of the Prophet (PBUH&HF) are included in the verse 33:33 relating to the purity and the excellence of the Ahlul-Bayt of Prophet Muhammad.
However, these commentators intentionally or otherwise ignore the significance of the address by the Angels. If Sarah, the wife of Abraham, is included in the term Ahlul-Bayt used in the above verse, it is not because she was the wife of Abraham, but because she was going to be the MOTHER of two prophets (Isaac and Jacob). She was mentioned by angles in the above verse as a member of Ahlul-Bayt, AFTER she RECEIVED the glad tiding that she is pregnant of Prophet Isaac (AS).
The matrimonial relation between and a man and a woman is only circumstantial and can be given up at any moment. She could never be a permanent partner to any husband to be included in the heavenly address who are endowed with the unique and heavenly excellence UNLESS she brings a son who becomes a Prophet or an Imam. Thus if we consider Sarah as a member of the House, it would be only because she would be the mother of Isaac, and not being the wife of Abraham. The verses 11:71-73 quoted above show that Sarah was called among Ahlul-Bayt after she got to know that she is having Isaac (AS).
House of Imran (AS)
Likewise, Quran mentions the mother of Moses among the Ahlul-Bayt of Imran. Again, as we can see in the following verses, the emphasis here is the MOTHER of Moses and not the wife of Imran:
28:12
And We ordained that he refuse to seek any foster mother before so she said: Shall I point out to you a household who will take care of him for you, and will be kind to him?
28:13
So We restored him to his mother that she might be comforted and not grieve, and that she might know that the promise of Allah is true. But most of them know not.
The mother of Moses is termed as Ahlul-Bayt, not for being the wife of Imran, but for being the mother of Moses, otherwise the wives who are subject to divorce and being substituted with women better than them (Quran 66:5) can't be considered as Ahlul-Bayt as pointed out by Zaid Ibn Arqam as well. This is illustrated with the wife of Noah and Lot, though they were the wives of such great servants of God, they were not considered Ahlul- Bayt. They perished along with the rest of community.
Let's remember what Zaid Ibn Arqam said: "Ahlul-Bayt (household) of the Prophet are his lineage and his descendants (those who come from his blood) for whom the acceptance of charity (Zakat) is prohibited."
The wife of Imran was in the lineage of the Moses, so was the wife of Abraham who was in the lineage of Isaac and Jacob. Similarly, if Fatimah (AS) is among the Ahlul-Bayt Prophet of Islam, it is because not only she was the daughter of the Prophet (PBUH&HF), but also she was the mother of two Imams.
House of Noah (AS)
And Noah Cried unto his Lord and said: "My Lord! Verily my son is of my family; and verily Your promise is true, and You are the most just of the judges."
He (Allah) said: "O Noah! Verily he is not of your family; Verily he is (of) conduct other than the righteous; Therefore do not ask what you have no knowledge about; Verily I advice you not to be of the ignorant ones." (Quran 11:45-46)
Abul Ala Maududi wrote in his commentary of the above verse that:
"If a part of the body of a person becomes rotten and the surgeon decides to cut it off, he will not comply with the request of the patient, who says 'Do not cut because it is a part of my body'. The surgeon will reply, 'It is no longer a part of your body because it is rotten.' Likewise when a ri
righteous father is told that his son is a worthless act, it means to imply that the efforts that you made to bring him up as a good son have gone waste for the work is spoilt and ended in utter failure."
Sunni reference:
* Commentary of Quran by Abul Ala Maududi (published by the Islamic Publications (Pvt) Limited), p367, under verse 11:45-46
Prophet Noah (AS) was pleading for his own son and the reply was that the lad was not worthy of being his son. It is made crystal clear by this verse that though one might be of the same blood and flesh, born through the same parents, but if the issue doesn't possess the good qualities of the parents then he or she is not of his parents' stock (as said in the second verse). Noah had three other sons, Aam, Sam and Yafas who were believers and who with their wives entered the Ark and were saved and Kanan was Noah's son by his OTHER wife who was a disbeliever and perished along with her son.
It can be concluded that if any one does no
It can be concluded that if any one does not hold the goodness of the correct faith in Allah, be he the son of the Apostle, he is not to be of the stock of his parentage; His very birth through his own parents is denied to him, even the right to be on God's earth is withdrawn from him, and he is to be destroyed.
Thus, even one is to be the son of a prophet of Allah, the lack of righteousness gets him disowned from the progeny (Itrat) of the apostolic family. It is for this reason that the term Ahlul-Bayt is restricted to the deserving members of the House of the Prophet and doesn't cover all of those who are born from his blood. Ahlul-Bayt are only the individuals among Prophet's descendants who also had close affinity in character and utmost spiritual attainment with Prophet (PBUH&HF).
"Just stick to the Torah from where it all originated."
The current Torah is not the original one. There is concrete proof of this.
I've asked a similar question to this, I'm adding some more details for you guys.
Please don't complain if I write to much, Im asking for advice, and Im in so much pain.
My mum made a comment to me today, and it's really upset me. When I was 12, on christmas day my mum and dad split up. I lived with him until I was sixteen and left school, because he'd hurt me so much and pushed me so far into a corner I couldn't stay there anymore.
"When you were born your dad didn't stop smiling for weeks"
She told me he really wanted a daughter when he found out she was pregnant, he was so happy to have a little girl the day I was born, because he hadn't known the sex.
He played all his favrioute albums to me growing up. AC/DC The Rolling Stones, and his favrioute the Sex Pistols. He'd been a punk growing up he never did what people told him to because he had his own opinion. He told me that when I was older I'd really appreciate that kind of music, when I was nine I decided I wanted to be a goth and he loved it, talked about wanted to take me to rock shows when I was big enough. Yet when he got remarried he hated me for it, told me to grow out of it, that wearing black all day was pointless, why cant you be like all the other girls, noone likes you becuse your different.
As I was growing up he told me how I could be anything in the world, how beautiful I was, how he was always proud of me. When he married HER he changed, I was overweight -im a UK six btw- and ugly, how I looked five months pregnant when my RIBS stick out of the front of my body, how I'd never amount to anything.
Everything changed when he got remarried. He didnt want anything to do with me, I wasnt allowed to go to college I wasnt allowed to have my only friend around because she was a 'bad influence' when infct she helped me through so much. He hates me now, I havent done anything wrong, when I had a massive asthma attack and was in hospital for over a week he called twice, a few days after i was discharged he came down to see my brother and didnt even ask about me.
When I was fifteen he found cuts from self harming on my arms, he threw me on the floor in anger and screamed and shouted at me. He never let me forget how much of a faliure I am. I just needed his help, I just wanted his love and attention.
There is alot more that happened, this is just a tiny example
I just dont understand, he loved me so much growing up, why did he begin to hate me when he got re-married.
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I've talked alot with my mum about this. She thinks because my step mother doesnt have her own children its sent her abit loopy. Most people tell me to just forget about him, its not that simple. He's my DAD, he wont be at my wedding day, at my graduation from university -college is free in the UK until your nineteen- he wont meet my children. It's made me insecure in relationships, afraid and untrustworthy in most aspects of life.
I have tried so very hard to explain this to him, even to the point of sending him songs he played me as a child
I've written him letters, phonecalls, emails, texts. He either gives me snobby replies or doesnt reply at all. He's sold anything I've left behind.
Theres a quote from him that sticks firmly in my mind, One day you'll come home and I wont be here, and when I come back I'll get Catherine -his wife- and leave and I wont come back.
At christmas he brought her a sports car and sent me a shitty card. He doesnt pay his maintenece on time and on my birthday he brought her a new sofa and told my brother in an email. He ignored my 18th.
And someone asked if I look like my mum, Im a splitting image of her, right down to my skin type. If she looked younger we'd proberbly pass as twins :/ Actually the only difference is our eye colour, mine are green whereas hers are brown.
And the reason Im asking on here is because sometimes people who dont know you, have a better look on something.
In reference to the Bible, how much are grandparents supposed to be involved in the lives of their grandkids? Where do you draw the line? I'm having issues with my mother. I feel she is overly involved in my life, I feel like she is more of a burden now than a blessing. She literally gives my daughter whatever she wants ( I feel like she does this purposely to turn my daughter against me) If I tell my daughter not to do something she turns around and lets her do the opposite of what I say. My aunt, my mother's sister, is the same as my mother if not worse. She is so convinced in her head that her grandaughter is eventually going to want to go live with her instead of her own mother. On a recent visit she wanted to spend time with her dad instead of grandma and my aunt lost it and accused her son of turning his kid against her. My mother tells me that I am stupid and arrogant because I dont visit her anymore, that I don't want her to love my daughter because I don't let her spoil her and that I am going to be judged by God for it. Can I please get some quotes from the Bible supporting your answers. Thanks I feel devasted.
They haven't said it to my face, but the ways they look at me and the way they talk to me about my children gives it away. I've recently lost my god-son, and my sister told me that he would have been better of in a home than under my roof.
My oldest daughter, 15, has 'emotional' issues, and has really bad behaviour and depression. My mother blames it on me, and I quote:
You were wreckless and dangerous as a child. It only makes sense that the child turns out the same.
I was fuming when she said what she did. My late brother and my Dad seem to be the only ones that surported me. Even at my wedding my Mum was looking down at me and I could tell she was loathing being a granmother for my children.
How can I convince that I'm not a bad mother and that I do try to make the family work? What can I do to show her that my children are everything to me?
Thanks for all the answers.
For those who suggest mydaughter go counciling she has been- for the last 8 years now and I have joined her for half the sessions. This is partly another reason why my mum thinks what she does on me and my family.
Thanks for all the answers.
For those who suggest mydaughter go counciling she has been- for the last 8 years now and I have joined her for half the sessions. This is partly another reason why my mum thinks what she does on me and my family.
In our home at present there are:
My husband, 40, and me, 38
My two daughter, 6 and 15 and my son 8.
As a direct family we've always had a strong relationship even if our oldest thinks otherwise but when it comes to our extended family we seem weak and pushed out.
I am planning on getting a tattoo done and I would love to put a quote for my parents I am second generation Irish over here in the U.S, and I am their only daughter, so I was wondering if anybody could help me It would pretty cool if it was from someone that was fluent in the language I tried looking it up on google, but it just gave me little sayings like mother or father. and I would like something a little bit more. Thx!
My mom is going through a really long and messy divorce with a huge jerk. He is using lies to try and win the case, but she is an honest person and won't stoop that low. She keeps asking for advice and really seems to need a "cheerleader" to keep her focused and fighting through this trying time, and not getting sad. Is there any advice, books, quotes, or authors that I can talk to her about to keep her positive and staying the course? Thanks.
Thanks for all the comments!
1. She has an awesome/smart attorney helping her currently
2. He is a stepfather- She found out about cheating, he stole some of her money, he is bi-polar, mild case of shcizophrenia, lied about his entire past, complete Jekyl and Hyde character. My husband and I spent a lot of time with them and I am very close with her and I saw these things first hand. I know the truth in this situation.
3. She is religious.
4. I would spend more time with her but she lives out of state
5. When she quietly talked to him about a seperation period he kicked her out, no house or car, changed the locks, kept her name off of everyhting. She is not trying to take half. She helped build his business massively and just wants money to live on.
6. He has been making up lies about her to her friends, to try and tarnish her reputation.
"Do you think I have to come to give peace on earth? No, I tell you, but rather division; for henceforth in one house there will be five divided, three against two and two against three; they will be divided, father against son and son against father, mother against daughter and daughter against her mother, mother- in-law against her daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law against her mother-in- law.
..........Luke 12:51
Me and my Fiance' have been engaged for almost 2 years now and we have the most beautiful little girl together, He's a good father and a good (husband to be) ... When his family doesn't get involved.
Okay when we first became a couple I was best friends with my fiance's best friend and my fiance's sister liked our friend and i guess she didn't like the fact the I was his friend
and she flat out told me she hated me . The other members of his family I was okay with for a while ,about 6 months into our relationship she came up to me and told me "wow your still with him huh?" and of course I was confused then she said she didn't like me because her and her family thought I was too pretty for him, which is stupid I honestly don't think I am. Then few months past we get engaged and
everything was fine until he went to visit his family one day and when he came home he acted like a complete ass. I didn't know what happened but he just started treating me so badly , so we separated for a while and he moved back in, and I became pregnant :) [ I know I'm not married and I was pregnant but I'm happy to have my little girl]
and everything was wonderful he treated me so differently, was sweet came to all the Dr. app.'s ,was there when I was in labor he really is such a sweet person when not around his family. anyway
after my daughter was born my family threw a baby shower because I didn't want to find out the sex. and I did invite his family but only one person came which was his cousin who is like 12, the mom dropped him off and no one else came which did kind of hurt but I know it hurt him a lot more. Here is where I get pissed...
my daughter not even a month old at the time was playing with him
his mother called and asked to speak with him and I told her he was getting ready to give her a bath and if she could hold on for like 10 seconds while I go get him, she said no that she'll call back and I said okay, then she said that she misses him living with her and that he would be much better off and happier if he wasn't with me or MY daughter. I hung up and then a few days later his sister calls and asked to speak with him and I said no[ i had the phone on speaker so he could hear the convo.] then she calls me a bitch and said ...and I quote... '' you and your damn daughter ruined his life, he's not even happy with you'' I went off and said things I don't think yahoo will allow me to say and he told me he was sorry for his sister and his whole family and swore he was happy and he loved me then he went to go talk to his sister they got into a argument and his mom came out crying and then he felt bad. he didn't talk to them for a few months until they called and he said he wants to be on good terms with them I said fine but I don't want to be around them after saying that to me. They never apologized for saying it and when he brought it up his mother said no we never said that and he told them that he heard them say it and his sister and mother got quite and told us to get out of their house (BTW he has 2 sisters and the one I'm talking about is the oldest) and basically to sum it up without me ranting, it's been like that ever since. my daughter in now 10months old and my fiance is the sweet, loving, affectionate person I've always wished for, then as soon as he gets into contact with them he acts like an ass. his older sister and mother always call up crying or saying things to make him fell bad so he apologizes to them and for the past 4 months whenever they say anything about me or my daughter he doesn't defend us anymore. he used to like every time they said something but i don't know why it stopped. I'm just so frustrated I don't know what to do and now his dad and little sister hate me and I know for a fact I've never said anything bad to them or disrespected them in anyway I hate this . They don't even call our daughter by her name, they just say "oh your kid" how do I get him to defend me and our daughter again? everything in our relationship is fine. good relationship, good sex life, i take care of the home and our daughter and work part time, he works full time, everything is fine except when his family gets involved.. I really hate thinking about this but part of me kind of does want him to cut ties with his family that's where most of our problems come from and I don't know I'm just so upset, has anyone been in this situation? or going through it?
I know the whole thing about mother-in laws and daughter-in laws don't get along is NOT true my sister-in law and mom get along perfectly and she's a sweetie my whole family loves her.....could it be because I'm white? he is Hispanic. but i know a lot of couples with the guy being Hispanic and the wife being white and they get along w/ the family fine.
I know I haven't done anything to them..until they said my daughter f***up his life then yes I became a bitch.I think any person who was told that would become a bitch/ass.
what should I do?
What does this tell you about a father? He takes his US born baby daughter back to his native country Japan with out her mothers consent. He wants to live in his native country Japan and want his daughter to live with him and his parent in Japan. He is a very good father and the child is satisfied with status quote, becase he takes good care of her. The child even thinks he is the best father in the world. He says that because her mother is not a Japanese national he is an unfit mother by default. He says that a Japanese national or duel US/Japanese national child can only be raised properly in Japan no different than any other Japanese child.
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"I can be bought. If they paid me enough, I'd work for the Klan."
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"You got to believe in yourself. Hell, I believe I'm the best-looking guy in the world and I might be right."
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"I don't hate anyone, at least not for more than 48 minutes, barring overtime."
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"We better not be doing the Bulls this year. Man, they suck! Bunch of high school kids with $70 million contracts. Damn! I hate my mother for having me too soon."
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"You can talk without saying a thing. I don't ever want to be that type of person."
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After retiring from basketball "I'm just what America needs - another unemployed black man.
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Ernie: "Did they recognize you in South Dakota?" Charles: "Yes, they did. It was easy because I was the only black person there. When they see me walking down the street they say 'There he goes again'. And when I come back the next year they say 'He's back yawl!'"
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Right after Peja won the 3-point contest: "Kenny said it was going to be an all-international night. I want to know which international brother is going to win the slam dunk contest."
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On the Enron scandal investigation: "Almost all those politicians took money from Enron, and there they are holding hearings. That's like O.J. Simpson getting in the Rae Carruth jury pool."
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"I had to explain to my daughter why that skank Monica Lewinski has an hour special on HBO this weekend."
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Ernie: "Auburn is a pretty good school. To graduate from there I suppose you really need to work hard and put forth maximum effort." Charles: "20 pts and 10 rebounds will get you through also!"
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"Every time I think about changing a diaper, I run a little bit harder and a little bit faster to make sure I can afford a nanny until my daughter's old enough to take care of that herself."
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EJ: "Did you graduate from Auburn?" Charles: "No, but I have a couple people working for me who did."
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"* Bavetta and Moses parted the Red Sea together."
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Ernie Johnson, on Reggie Evans being caught grabbing the rocks of Chris Kaman: "(Reggie Evans) got caught with his hand in the cookie jar."Charles Barkley: "Ernie, I don't know where you get your cookies at but the rest of us don't get ours there."
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On his 17-year old daughter not dating yet: "Thank goodness. I just hope she doesn't start before I go in the Hall of Fame. That way, I won't have to kill anybody before I get inducted."
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Kenny: "There's guys who go over to Europe and play overseas from America, and they dominate!" Charles: "Those are called 'brothers'
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After Wang has a shot blocked: "He's got to bring something stronger than that. That's like bringing milk to a bar, it's not strong enough"
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Barkley on Turner Sports office having a betting pool on his weight: "That is starting to hurt my feelings. I don't mind skinny people making fun of me, we all do that, but I don't want fat people making fun of me."
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"We are in the business of kicking butt and business is very, very good."
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When the Dream Team was about to play the Angola national team, during pre-game interviews the other USA players provided diplomatic, face saving comments about how they would play hard and felt strongly they would win. When Chuck was asked about Angola and the game, he replied: "They're in a lot of trouble."
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Charles Barkley on his thoughts about retiring before the season: "I remember sitting down with the Rockets and saying, 'Yeah. I'm going to retire.' They said, 'Well, we'll give you $9 million.' And I said, 'You got a pen on you?'"
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Man, everything gets blamed on the Clintons, every single thing in this world. I think Bill Clinton shot JFK, too.
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"I know why his name is DMX. Because his real name is Earl. Imagine if his name was Earl the rapper."
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"If you go out with a girl and they say she has a great personality, she's ugly. If they tell you a guy works hard, he can't play a lick. Same thing."
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After Kevin Garnett threw a ball into the crowd out of frustration and was ejected. They showed footage of the man that got hit by the ball being taken away in a stretcher and his daughter was crying. Charles commented that players take passes to the face all the time. He topped it off by saying: "You know why that little girl's crying? It's because she's thinking 'my daddy's a wussy'".
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Barkley on Ernie Johnson and Kenny Smith eating a box of hot Krispy Kreme donuts in front of him: a�?Both of ya��all are2 going to hell for that. Ya��all are going to hell with a first-class ticket. Is that how you treat your partner? Krispy Kreme might be the greatest invention in the history of civilization when theya��re hot. Ya��all are cruel man.a�?
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If a girl has a baby 3 weeks before you had your baby and says its your boyfriends what would you do?
Okay, I got pregnant after a few weeks of messing around with a guy that was in a short 3 month relationship about 3 weeks prior to us ever fooling around. He claimed he used condoms with her and or pulled out. We got more exclusive after messing around and she texted him saying she thought she was pregnant. This was back last summer. We had no idea I was pregnant at the time. If I was I was probably a few days if that after conception. So he bought her a test and took it to her. I was pissed at the time and for sure I would leave him alone if his recent ex was prego with his child.
Oh to add more details to this. He already had a 5 month old by another woman. ( He hadnt been with her in some time since conception. her whole pregnancy they werent together...etc...so i thought this was okay..even though id never dated men with kids before and swore I wouldnt EVER) lol anyways...
so she took the test and texted back it was NEGATIVE. Okay..so then a few weeks later we found out I was pregnant and I 90% knew it was his child. We get together officially the next month. We're now in a serious relationship..blah blah blah...he sees his daughter he had before me and etc...then a few months before Im due...this girl messages me on myspace saying she infact was prego all this time and i quote" yalls daughter will be having a brother or sister" WOW I start asking questions and etc...cause ofcourse he didnt talk to the girl the whole time we've been together the past 7-8 months (at that time it had been about that long)
He told the girl there was no way it was his child cause he hadnt messed with her since they broke up early August...we messed around Aug 30th for the 1st time. I got prego early September. Well I had our daughter May 26th a week early. She had her little boy supposadly May 7th a few weeks early as well but 8lbs 7 ounces. lol which seems a bit big to be early. lmao anyways....she has been known to lie in the past and told me a bit after the baby was born on myspace (she never contacts him on myspace or any other way just messages me...) that she knows my guy is her son's father and he only got with me to make her jealous and blah blah blah past summer old crap that i care nothing about...she then says she doesnt want my guy in his life..he doesnt need him she will get her son a real dad and etc...
now the word on the street is her wealthy parents are tired of helping her young sorry butt(who has never worked in her life..has nothing...immature young girl) so they want to take my guy to court and etc for getting her pregnant on purpose and walking off... I really dont know what to think or do. He already had a daughter that is a year and a half and my daughter that is 2 months. Im a real estate agent and he works a reg job and is in school as well. He cannot take care of another child right now and neither of us is on good terms with her. I do not want him even talking to her...never did after we were a couple...who would want their man talking to his ex? you know....
He wants to call her mother and tell her that she told him she wasnt pregnant and he doesnt think its his and she really doesnt even bring anything up to him and never has...only occasional messages to me (his girlfriend) which makes you think she doesnt want his help or knows he really may NOT be the father. I have told him before if the child is his im gone. I will not deal with him having another child a few weeks older than ours...it seems to crazy...I know it was a bit before me but if I had of known even back then I would of never got in a relationship with him. What am I to do and or think? Any advice? I mean I already step mother this other child whenever she is over here (which I knew about) a few days every other week or so.
Am I over reacting...i mean this boy may not be his and the girl hasnt asked him for anything...just alot of he say she say going on.
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He has never cheated on me . He wasnt with the ex when we first slept together. Hadnt been for about 3 weeks......
I know a dna will solve it but should it even be brought up. Our lives are fine without this mess that is hardley ever brought up unless someone they both know tells him something they have heard...she never contacts us....
My child is his...I was 90% sure....Like I said we WERE not together...but before my cycle I was with someone else but after...and to this date only him..anyways our daughter looks just like him...but I said 90% to let you know that we both werent perfect...
Okay, I got pregnant after a few weeks of messing around with a guy that was in a short 3 month relationship about 3 weeks prior to us ever fooling around. He claimed he used condoms with her and or pulled out. We got more exclusive after messing around and she texted him saying she thought she was pregnant. This was back last summer. We had no idea I was pregnant at the time. If I was I was probably a few days if that after conception. So he bought her a test and took it to her. I was pissed at the time and for sure I would leave him alone if his recent ex was prego with his child. Oh to add more details to this. He already had a 5 month old by another woman. ( He hadnt been with her in some time since conception. her whole pregnancy they werent together...etc...so i thought this was okay..even though id never dated men with kids before and swore I wouldnt EVER) lol anyways...so she took the test and texted back it was NEGATIVE. Okay..so then a few weeks later we found out I was pregnant and I 90% knew it was his child. We get together officially the next month. We're now in a serious relationship..blah blah blah...he sees his daughter and etc...then a few months before Im due...this girl messages me on myspace saying she infact was prego all this time and i quote" yalls daughter will be having a brother or sister" WOW I start asking questions and etc...cause ofcourse he didnt talk to the girl the whole time we've been together the past 7-8 months (at that time it had been about that long) He told the girl there was no way it was his child cause he hadnt messed with her since they broke up early August...we messed around Aug 30th for the 1st time. I got prego early September. Well I had our daughter May 26th a week early. She had her little boy supposadly May 7th a few weeks early as well but 8lbs 7 ounces. lol which seems a bit big to be early. lmao anyways....she has been known to lie in the past and told me a bit after the baby was born on myspace (she never contacts him on myspace or any other way just messages me...) that she knows my guy is her son's father and he only got with me to make her jealous and blah blah blah past summer old crap that i care nothing about...she then says she doesnt want my guy in his life..he doesnt need him she will get her son a real dad and etc...now the word on the street is her wealthy parents are tired of helping her young sorry butt(who has never worked in her life..has nothing...immature young girl) so they want to take my guy to court and etc for getting her pregnant on purpose and walking off... I really dont know what to think or do. He already had a daughter that is a year and a half and my daughter that is 2 months. Im a real estate agent and he works a reg job and is in school as well. He cannot take care of another child right now and neither of us is on good terms with her. I do not want him even talking to her...never did after we were a couple...who would want their man talking to his ex? you know....He wants to call her mother and tell her that she told him she wasnt pregnant and he doesnt think its his and she really doesnt even bring anything up to him and never has...only occasional messages to me (his girlfriend) which makes you think she doesnt want his help or knows he really may NOT be the father. I have told him before if the child is his im gone. I will not deal with him having another child a few weeks older than ours...it seems to crazy...I know it was a bit before me but if I had of known even back then I would of never got in a relationship with him. What am I to do and or think? Any advice? I mean I already step mother this other child whenever she is over here (which I knew about) a few days every other week or so. Am I over reacting...i mean this boy may not be his and the girl hasnt asked him for anything...just alot of he say she say going on.
He has never cheated on me so how can you call him a player? He wasnt with the ex when we first slept together. Hadnt been for about 3 weeks......
I know a dna will solve it but should it even be brought up. Our lives are fine without this mess that is hardley ever brought up unless someone they both know tells him something they have heard...she never contacts us....
Is my mother in law right? Or am I? I have decided months and months ago to have a double birthday for my daughter and niece since both of their birthday are only 2 days apart. I told everyone. They said it was the perfect idea. I even had custom invites made and cost almost $50 dollars just recently. Well my mother in law just told my sister in law she is throwing them birthdays herself. Two separate parties. And that it's special for my daughter to have her own party since she never got to through her a baby shower. Which my daughter never needed. Or I cared about.
(2 years ago who cares?) We told my sister in law well we want one party when the whole family is there for that week. I feel cheated. I bought expensive plane tickets, outfits, and cards. Also just put together party bags for the kids who are attending. Also we won't be there for my niece's birthday party we'll be leaving then. My grandma in law said she'll throw the double party if I want and her daughter is being "silly". My sister in law told my husband that quote on quote "I think it would be all right if 'jo-jo' had her party by herself. Let it be special for her. Don't go calling mom and starting up drama again." Well what should I do. I can't call my mom in law considering she has "phone issues" and used all her minutes talking to my sister in law. My mother in law is really poor too. I don't think she could afford these parties anyways. How could I bring it up next conversation????
A little boy opened the big and old family Bible with fascination, looking at the old pages as he turned them. Then something fell out, and he picked it up and looked at it closely. It was an old leaf from a tree that had been pressed in between the pages.
"Momma, look what I found," the boy called out. "What have you got there, dear?" his mother asked. With astonishment in the his voice, he answered, "It's Adam's Suit!"
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The preacher was wired for sound with a lapel mic, and as he preached, he moved briskly about the platform, jerking the mic cord as he went. Then he moved to one side, getting wound up in the cord and nearly tripping before jerking it again. After several circles and jerks, a little girl in the third pew leaned toward her mother and whispered,"If he gets loose, will he hurt us?"
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Six-year old Angie and her four-year old brother, Joel, were sitting together in church. Joel giggled, sang and talked out loud.
Finally, his big sister had had enough. "You're not supposed to talk out loud in church." "Why? Who's going to stop me?" Joel asked. Angie pointed to the back of the church and said, "See those two men standing by the door? They're hushers."
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My grandson was visiting one day when he asked, "Grandma, do you know how you and God are alike?"
I mentally polished my halo while I asked, "No, how are we alike?" "You're both old," he replied.
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A ten-year old, under the tutelage of her grandmother, was becoming quite knowledgeable about the Bible.
Then one day she floored her grandmother by asking, "Which Virgin was the mother of Jesus? The Virgin Mary or the King James Virgin?"
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A Sunday School class was studying the Ten Commandments. They were ready to discuss the last one. The teacher asked if anyone could tell her what it was. Susie raised her hand, stood tall and quoted, "Thou shalt not take the covers off thy neighbor's wife."
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I had been teaching my three-year old daughter, Caitlin, the Lord's Prayer. For several evenings, at bedtime, she would repeat after me the lines from the prayer. Finally, she decided to go solo. I listened with pride as she carefully enunciated each word, right up to the end of the prayer: "Lead us not into temptation," she prayed, "but deliver us from e-mail. Amen."
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One particular four-year old prayed, "And forgive us our trash baskets as we forgive those who put trash in our baskets."
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A little boy was overhead praying: "Lord, if you can't make me a better boy, don't worry about it.
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1) The Prophet (s) said, a�?On the Day of Judgment, a caller will call out, a�?lower your gaze until Fatima has passed.a�?
Kenz Al-Omal, v. 13, p. 91 & 93, Muntakhab Kenz Al-Omal quoted in the margin of Al-Musnad, v. 5, p. 96; Al-Sawaiq Al-Muhariqa, p. 190; Asad Al-Ghaba, v. 5, p. 523; Tadhkirat Al-Khawas, p. 279; Dhakaa��ir Al-Uqubi, p. 48; Manaqib Al-Imam Ali of Ibn Al-Maghazali, p. 356; Nur Al-Absar, p. 51-52, Yanabi^ Al-Muwadda, v. 2, ch. 56, p. 136
2) The Prophet (s) said, a�?When I long for the fragrance of Paradise I smell the neck of Fatima.a�?
Muntakhab Kenz Al-Omal, v. 5, p. 97; Nur Al-Absar, p. 51; Manaqib Al-Imam Ali of Ibn Al-Maghazali, p. 360.
3) The Prophet (s) said, a�?Of all the women in the Universe, four would suffice: Mary, Asiya, Khadija, and Fatima.a�?
Al-Sahihain, v. 3, the Chapter on the Virtues of Fatima, p. 171; Seir Alam Al-Nabalaa��, v. 2, p. 126; Al-Bidaya wa Al-Nihaya, v. 2, p. 59; The Virtues of Al-Imam Ali of Ibn Al-Maghazali, p. 363.
4) The Prophet (s) said, a�?Oh, Ali, Jibreel has informed me that God has married you to Fatima.a�?
Manaqib Al-Imam Ali from Al-Riyadh Al-Nudhra, p. 141.
5) The Prophet (s) said, a�?I am not pleased unless Fatima is pleased.a�?
Manaqib Al-Imam Ali of Ibn Al-Maghazali, p. 342.
6) The Prophet (s) said, a�?Oh, Ali, God has commanded me to marry you to Fatima.a�?
Al-Sawaiq Al-Muhariqa,. ch. 4, p. 142; Dakhaa��ir Al-Uqubi, p. 30 & 31; Tadhkirat Al-Khawas, p. 276; Manaqib Al-Imam Ali from Al-Riyadh Al-Nudhra, p. 141; Nur Al-Absar, p. 53.
7) The Prophet (s) said, a�?Verily, God married Ali to Fatima.a�?
Al-Sawaiq Al-Muhariqa, p. 173.
8) The Prophet (s) said, a�?All the children of a mother are attributed to their fatherly relation except the sons of Fatima.a�?
Al-Sawaiq Al-Muhariqa, p. 156 & 187; related in similar words in Mustadrak Al-Sahihain, v. 3, p. 179; Kenz All-Omal, v. 13, p. 101; Is^af Al-Raghibeen quoted in the appendix of Nur Al-Absar, p. 144.
9) The Prophet (s) said, a�?All the children of a woman are attributed to their father, but not the sons of Fatima.a�?
Kenz Al-Omal, v. 13, p. 101; Al-Sawaiq Al-Muhariqa, p. 187 & 188; Is^af Al-Raghibeen quoted in the margin of Nur Al-Absar, p. 144.
10) The Prophet (s) said, a�?The most beloved of my family to me is Fatima.a�?
Al-Jami^ al-Sagheer, v. 1, #203, p. 37; Al-Sawaiq Al-Muhariqa, p. 191; Yanabi^ Al-Mawadda, v. 2, ch. 59, p. 479; Kenz Al-Omal, v. 13, p. 93.
11) The Prophet (s) said, a�?The four greatest women in the Universe are Mary, Asiya, Khadija, and Fatima.a�?
Al-Jami^ Al-Sagheer, v. 1, #4112, p. 469; Al-Isaba fi Tamayyuz Al-Sahaba, v. 4, p. 378; Al-Bidaya wa Al-Nihaya, v. 2, p. 60; Dakhaa��ir Al-Uqubi, p. 44.
12) The Prophet (s) said, a�?The head of the women of Paradise is Fatima.a�?
Kenz Al-Omal, v. 13, p. 94; Sahih Al-Bukhari, Kitab Al-Fadhaa��il, Chapter on the Virtues of Fatima; Al-Bidaya wa Al-Nihaya, v. 2, p. 61.
13) The Prophet (s) said, a�?If I were separated from the fruits of Paradise I would kiss Fatima.a�?
Nur Al-Absar, p. 51.
14) The Prophet (s) said, a�?Many men have reached completion, but no women have reached completion except four: Mary, Asiya, Khadija, and Fatima.a�?
Nur Al-Absar, p. 51.
15) The Prophet (s) said, a�?The first people to enter Paradise will be Ali and Fatima.a�?
Nur Al-Absar, p. 52; related by similar wording in Kenz Al-Omal, v. 13, p. 95.
16) The Prophet (s) said, a�?The verse of purification was revealed concerning five people: myself, Ali, Hassan, Hussein, and Fatima.a�?
Is^af Al-Raghibeen, p. 116; Sahih Muslim, Kitab Fadhaa��il Al-Sahaba.
17) The Prophet (s) said, a�?The best women in Paradise will be Mary, Asiya, Khadija, and Fatima.a�?
Seir Alam Al-Nubalaa��, v.2, p. 126; Dakhaa��ir Al-Uqubi, p. 44.
18) The Prophet (s) said, a�?The first one to enter Paradise will be Fatima.a�?
Yanabi^ Al-Mawadda, v. 2, p. 322, ch. 56.
19) The Prophet (s) said, a�?The Mehdi is from my family, from the sons of Fatima.a�?
Al-Sawaiq Al-Muhariqa, p. 237.
20) The Prophet (s) said, a�?Verily, God has weaned (fatama in Arabic) my daughter Fatima and her children and those who love them from the Hellfire, and that is why she is named Fatima.a�?
Kenz Al-Omal, v. 6, p. 219.
21) The Prophet (s) said, a�?Fatima, you will be the first amongst my Ahlul-Bayt to follow after me.a�?
Haliyat Al-Awliya, v. 2, p. 40; Sahih Al-Bukhari, Kitab Al-Fadhaa��il; Kenz Al-Omal, v. 13, p. 93; Muntakhab Kenz Al-Omal, v. 5, p. 97.
22) The Prophet (s) said, a�?Fatima is part of me. Whatever upsets her upsets me, and whatever harms her harms me.a�?
Sahih Muslim, v. 5, p. 54; Khasaa��is Al-Imam Ali of Nisaa��i, p. 121-122; Masabih Al-Sunnah, v. 4, p. 185; Al-Isabah, v. 4, p. 378; Seir Alam Al-Nubalaa��, v. 2, p. 119; Kenz Al-Omal, v. 13, p. 97; similar wording is related in Al-Tirmidhi, v. 3, Chapter on the Virtues of Fatima, p. 241; Haliyat Al-Awliyaa��, v.2, p. 40; Muntakhab Kenz Al-Omal, in the margins of Al-Musnad, v. 5, p. 96; Maarifat Ma Yajib Li Aal Al-Bait Al-Nabawi Min Al-Haqq Alaa Men Adahum, p. 58; Dhakhaa��ir
First off, i know this isn't singles and dating but i thought it would get better publicity on here.
I wouldn't like a mother referring to a daughter, or a daughter referring to their mother . i am editing a picture for my sister of her and her daughter .. something like mothers and daughters are never actually apart, their always in t he beating of eachothers heart. ... accept not that one .. just something that reffers to both of them is what i mean..
i've tried google and i can't find any of them that doesn't reffer to the mother or daughter and stuff... please help ?
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